03. Karma Klatch
Spiritual Web Chat
Session 1: Sat 27 Sep 1997
Ben< Karma is a Sanskrit word meaning "a deed". In Hinduism
and Buddhism, the doctrine of karma is that the totality of a person's actions
in any one state of existence (or lifetime) determines his or her fate in
the next.
Ben< Initially, there are two ways of looking at this concept. First,
what happens to you now has its roots in what you did previously, or in
a previous life. Second, what you do now determines what happens to you
later in this life, or your future life.
Ben< Let's look at prior karma first, in two ways. What if you believe
this doctrine? And what if it is true?
Ben< Okay, that sketches an outline for discussion. What will you think
or say or expect, if you believe that what happens to you (and others) now
is determined by what you (or they) did in the past or in a previous life?
YOUR TURN
FRAML< I have never believed in Karma. However, in the past few years
I have realized that reincarnation is possible, but I don't make a link
to past errors or successes affecting the present life.
greyman< The concept is easy to buy into if you believe that there are
consequences to your actions.
HopToad< Well, I imagine one would think, "Damn! Not THAT karma
again!"
kalia< I'd say we would have to pay more attention and be in more control
of our actions and thoughts.
bindi< For me, I would want to know all about the past lives that I have
been through and learn from them.
FRAML> Destiny? You are saying that what happens to you in a previous
life determines the way you are in a current life. Is there any way you
can find out exactly what it is?
bindi< Don't you need to know where you came from before going into destiny?
LEGS< I have a friend who uses this belief to excuse her shortcomings
in character now, more than her failings at the physical things she does:
like, "Oh, I'm lite-fingered because I suffered from having no trinkets
in my past lives. It's my Karma to help myself make up for that." And
then she laughs about shop lifting.
Jalena< There is almost a certain aspect of predestination when one is
talking about Karma. I don't believe in determinism, but I think I do like
to consider hardships as a lesson.
Ben< Jalena: Yes, "determines" is a key word in this doctrine.
Jalena< Whose doctrine, Ben? Is determinism the doctrine of Karma?
Ben< Jalena: The Hindu and Buddhist doctrine of karma, as I described
it a little while ago. That is how it is popularly understood.
Jalena< I am convinced that reincarnation is a reality, but not a dogmatic
notion of it as in Hinduism.
c-breeze< I believe we might be living many lives at one time, and that
actions in one life definitely affect both the past and future lives we
are in.
HopToad> Then I would try to make amends in some compassionate fashion
and hope for a better fate in the next go round.
bindi< Is there not a process we should go through to understand our
past lives, and then work from that basis?
greyman< I wonder if the concept was created as some means of social
conditioning: "If you're bad, you may come back as a slug, or much
worse, a used car salesman".
LEGS< greyman: *smiling*
FRAML< greyman: Good point -- a variant of Santa Claus is watching, or
an omnipresent god seeing everything you do and marking the bad against
you.
bindi< And why is it then that it seems that all past lives have something
negative in them?
HopToad< bindi: Because we are all human and flawed?
Ben< bindi: Good point. I'll try to get into "good karma" and
"bad karma" later.
bindi< Is this all just an excuse for the way things might happen in
our present lives?
Ben< Suppose you believe this doctrine and use it to explain why a child
was born crippled? Or died young? YOUR TURN
c-breeze< I think we choose our present life. We could die as a child
in order to release some karma in the parents' lives. Or crippled because
we did not show compassion for the lame.
Jalena< I think the child born crippled or the one who dies young is
not paying off Karma. I think they needed to experience those life effects.
Or else they left early when the lesson was learned. Or they left after
fulfilling duty to another.
Jalena< Of course, in Hindu doctrine, the child born crippled is paying
off karmic debt. I think it possible to create serious judgments through
the use of Karma to explain such things.
bindi< As human beings it is natural for us to seek answers for the unexplained,
and that may be what Karma is about: giving us an answer that is guiding
and fills the gap of the unknowable. So if part of Karma is about our past
lives, then let's explore them and learn from it all, from everyone's experiences.
kalia< I am wondering if that mechanism called Karma is mathematically
exact or if its judgment is somehow more warm and therefore perfect.
Energie< In order to turn a couple of tons of iron ore into a shiny new
car, the iron ore has got to be worked over pretty good. Is that something
like karma?
HopToad< But is being born crippled or dying young a "bad"
thing? Wouldn't an early death be a sign that they had achieved all the
learning or karmic work and were released into the next life?
FRAML< HopToad: And dying young in a car crash signifies what?
HopToad< Death is death, what does it signify to you, FRAML?
FRAML< HopToad: I see death as death, the soul is released to go to the
light. I don't see the 'learned the lessons needed' you mentioned, but the
lesson one needs to learn to get them to the Light will hopefully be learned
before death.
Jalena< FRAML: What judgment does one attach to death at an early age?
Are you asking if there is meaning, or assuming it is senseless?
FRAML< Jalena: I see no judgment in the case of a child killed in an
auto accident where he was a passenger (for example). Just something that
happened to the child.
HopToad< So the "crippled" one is also there to engender compassion
in others?
greyman< Who would choose to come back deformed?
Jalena< greyman: Deformity is a subjective performance.
greyman< I can't help but think that our investment into this concept
is based on our choice.
LEGS< My perception was of Karma being a lesson unlearned previously,
as in other lives, and that is exactly what you would be here to learn this
go round, but is very hard for me to accept... just that way.
Ben< Okay, good comments. As I see it, the predeterminism in the usual
doctrine of karma tends to lead to a sort of fatalism about one's present
life, and it can lead to a lack of compassion for others: "He must
have brought it on himself, by something he did in a past life." That
reaction is seen in some parts of India, where one steps politely over the
starving beggar so as not to disturb his karma. Unless one is Mother Teresa,
that is.
Ben< Now let's look at the forward aspect of this doctrine: Why you do
now will determine your fate in the future. What does that concept mean
to you? Does it provide motivation or inhibition for present actions? YOUR
TURN
Ben> Hmmm... that's a significant typo. I meant to type "what you
do now" and instead typed "why you do now." I didn't intend
to get into that difference just yet.
c-breeze< It makes me strive harder to learn my "lesson" in
this life, so I won't have to repeat the lesson.
greyman< c-breeze: I can see the ripples in the pond of time by that
statement.
c-breeze< I hope so, greyman -- if I understand your meaning.
bindi< I feel that it is important to understand the previous before
moving onto the future.
kalia< Maybe it might provoke any one of the two reactions. It only depends
on us.
HopToad< Both reactions. Isn't this just a huge concept of a cosmic conscience?
It's within and without.
dancer< I believe in karma, but also believe karma can be transcended.
kalia< dancer: How do you think karma can be transcended?
dancer< kalia: Love and forgiveness and release.
FRAML< dancer: Touché.
dancer< FRAML: Thanks. Lessons learned the hard way. {grin}
FRAML< Ben: It also reminds me of Predestination of Souls as preached
by John Calvin. (Perhaps getting ahead of you.) Also, I see how we live
now as affecting whether we cut loose of what binds us to this realm and
lets us go to the Light, or reincarnate to continue enjoying earthly pleasures/vices.
bindi< Everything is about the choices we make in our lives. It is a
matter of taking the information we do know and using that as a form of
guidance for us to make our own decisions.
Ben< bindi: Understanding our past (as in past life regression) can help
in our decision-making here and now. But some who experience past life regression
then want to continue what they were doing in the past life, so it can have
mixed results.
bindi< Ben: Isn't that a matter of choice for them to continue in their
past life, and maybe they are not ready to move on and learn from their
past life? Or maybe they have unfinished business in their past lives.
Ben< bindi: Bingo! "Unfinished business" is important. That
thought moves us from "What if you believe this doctrine?" to
"What if karma or something like it is true?" Past life regression
very often discloses some type of unfinished business.
LEGS< Ben: In the case of my sister, invalided with MD, I've been told
she chose this for this life in order to catch up and by-pass the several
lives of less suffering that this one life would equal... on the path to
bettering her spirit.
kalia< Why is it that we do not remember the things we have done in past
lives as we remember what we have done in this one? I think it is better
for us not to be conscious about these things while we are not spiritually
strong enough.
Ben< The mechanical, deterministic, concept of karma leads to thoughts
or statements such as: "If you murdered, you must come back and be
murdered; if you torment someone now, you must come back and be tormented."
(Obviously this is "bad karma" but that's what gets most of the
attention.)
c-breeze< Ben: I don't think it works exactly like that. But then, we
don't know exactly how it works, do we?
Ben< c-breeze: I don't know exactly how it works, but I have a pretty
good idea of how it works in some cases.
HopToad< And good karma... ?
c-breeze< I think you can have a very rewarding life, then move to one
where you kill yourself or something -- just more lessons.
bindi< Is our spiritual life not a path leading to somewhere?
FRAML< bindi: Unfinished business is a reason to reincarnate, in that
it is more important to finish the business than it is to cut the links
to this plane of existence and get out of the Reincarnation cycle.
bindi< FRAML: Do we really choose whether or not we reincarnate?
Jalena< Dying also discloses some unfinished business, Ben.
FRAML< bindi, Jalena: I see reincarnation is possible but not preferable.
That there is a better way for the soul to go after death of this clay vessel
than to reincarnate.
greyman< Hummmm, maybe, if we choose to focus our energy on blessing
rather than suffering, we might grow out of the "Karmic debt".
bindi< greyman: I agree with you that we should concentrate on positives,
and through positive affirmations we can have the power to change the negative
no matter how deep rooted they are.
dancer< greyman: Yep, live in a state of grace.
bindi< dancer: Grace, not denial.
dancer< bindi: I'm not an advocate of denial. If you close your eyes
to the problems of life, nothing is cared for ... and caring is love manifested.
Jalena< FRAML: It is a privilege to reincarnate, in my opinion, not a
punishment for Karma. But then the Hindu doctrine would probably not agree
with me.
Ben< Okay, to move to another series of thoughts on this subject: mechanical
karma only considers deeds. What if one *wanted* to do something but didn't
do the deed? Would that have an effect? YOUR TURN
FRAML< Yes, you would be back on this planet to try again, bound here
by "unfinished business"
bindi< Ben: Can you be more specific?
Ben< bindi: Yes. Suppose I wanted to marry a girl in a previous life,
but it was impossible. Might my love for her have effects in this life?
Or suppose I wanted to be a doctor, but couldn't. See?
HopToad< No, Ben, I don't see. What's your answer?
Ben> HopToad: The effects of "karma" are caused by desires
whether the desires are acted upon or not.
bindi< All of that, though, is unfinished business, and yes, it can come
back to effect us in our present lives if we are open and willing to look
and learn from it.
Jalena< If one is talking about Karma in the Hindu doctrine, then one
would repeat a life for not doing a deed one "wanted" to. The
effect would be to live again. And in Hinduism, one would be born into a
lower caste for the neglect. I don't agree with this doctrine.
greyman< Ohhh, Jalena, you must have a young healthy body. Talk to someone
who is under a lot of physical or emotional pain. Or simply grow old.
Jalena< greyman: You assume much. *S* Adversity is subjective depending
on judgments.
greyman< Jalena: Or when you realize adversity.
Jalena< greyman: Why do you assume I have not experienced adversity,
old age, or poor health based on the opinions I have presented?
greyman< Jalena: This started as a rhetorical question. I sincerely apologize
if my meager assumptions have in some way offended you.
Jalena< greyman: I am not offended. How could I be? You know nothing
about me. But your assumptions suggest limitations to my opinions. No problem.
greyman< Jalena: Peace.
dancer< Ben: This is interesting. I know that plants will die if a lot
of negative energy is directed at them. Maybe our negative thoughts can
create illness in others. I know that they do within ourselves.
windy< I agree, seeming bad fortune is not necessarily a punishment.
A spirit who is very active in its manifestation, very physical, might perhaps
fall behind in developing other attributes and choose a body which lacks
the capacity to be very physical in order to pursue this development. In
another vein, a person who lacks an appreciation for the physical, always
in their head or on some outer plane, might choose a crippled body to learn
to appreciate the body's ability to move, to flow, to dance in its expression
through life. A rather strange aspect of my own karma is my lack of concern
with material possessions and money and acquiring it. I think I have been
too much unconcerned with these things, and in this world where one cannot
live without "making a living" and dealing well with money and
acquiring it ... I have problems. Fortunately, I have karma of helping others,
which perhaps has earned me the right to have others help me, but I think
in the future I shall pay more attention to striking a balance in the financial
arena. *S*
windy< sorry, all ... I guess I got carried away ... didn't realize I
wrote so much.
Ben< Summary of my opinions to this point in the discussion: I think
the mechanical doctrine of karma was put forth as a form of social control:
"You will be rewarded for your good deeds and punished for your bad
deeds, sooner or later, if not in this life, then in the next."
MonaHawke< Ben: Absolutely. In my humble opinion, most 'doctrines' have
control as their motivation.
bindi< Can we not take pieces from the doctrine to enhance our present
lives, as opposed to simply rejecting it?
Ben< I believe we carry our desires with us, and those desires influence
us until they are set aside or resolved. This is the concept of "attachment"
in Hinduism and Buddhism, and especially in Raja Yoga.
Jalena< Ben: You are presenting a case for determinism, right?
windy< I think our attractions draw us back even more so than our karma,
if they are not part of one another.
Jalena< windy: I think I agree with you.
windy< Ben: Are you saying then, that the *mechanical* doctrine of karma
is not an accurate interpretation of karma? I think karma is more like consequences
than determinism... but I guess in some ways, the two concepts are similar.
Ben< Jalena, windy: I don't buy the mechanical, deterministic doctrine
of karma. I do believe in the concept of attraction and/or attachment.
bindi< Yes, Ben, I agree that desires are the messages from our past
lives leading us in a direction, whether we are aware of it or not.
Jalena< So, is it overcoming the desires of the body that is central,
Ben?
FRAML< Jalena: Yes, that is one of the key points I see as getting me
out of the reincarnation cycle. Yet we can have caring connections to loved
ones that will stretch from here to the Light.
Tigerlily< FRAML: So you are saying it is preferable to only reincarnate
once?
FRAML< Tigerlily: For me, it is preferable to end the reincarnation cycle
in this lifetime. I do not speak to number of times. I suspect I may have
reincarnated, by some personal quirks that are coming into focus, but I
previously believed that I was a new soul and wanted to return to whence
I came. I merely do my best to follow my spirit guide.
Tigerlily< FRAML: Are you then speaking of Christ when you say you do
your best to follow your spirit guide? I have never heard you use the terminology
of spirit guide. *s* Sounds more like me.
FRAML< Tigerlily: We are in synch. *S*
LEGS< Ben: If the Karma and past lives is true, then are there really
new souls? those here for the first time around? or are all at this point
being recycled? in theory?
[Ben< LEGS: That is another large subject. There are several theories
about the origin of souls.]
bindi< LEGS: I have heard that souls are in a sense recycled, but our
souls are growing closer to enlightenment with each learning cycle.
windy< I don't think reincarnation is like recycling. It is more like
a continuation. We don't consider ourselves to be recycling our bodies every
time our body puts on a different set of clothing.
Ben< /topic Open Discussion of "Karma"
windy< Ben: Would you consider that it is our attachment to certain things
that set our karma in motion? And given that we detach ourselves from a
particular attraction, then we also transcend our karma regarding that attachment?
Ben< windy: Yes.
bindi< windy: Aren't we, as we realize the consequences of our actions,
therefore choosing our destiny?
windy< bindi: At which point are you saying we realize the consequences
of our actions? If you mean in between lives, then I guess I would agree
with you ... at least for all but very young souls (if there be such a thing),
but in the physical world, I do not think that everyone, perhaps not even
most people, realize the consequences of their actions. If we did, I think
the world would be quite different.
Tigerlily< As I have understood karma (not much), it is basically cause
and effect, and it can be dissolved by love, service, and spiritual devotion.
dancer< Ben: I agree with you on attachment. We bring into our lives
what we strongly believe in or are attached/attracted to. I think our thoughts
are magnetic in a sense. Lots of self-fulfilling prophesies. If one doesn't
feel worthy of love (ingrained belief) they find abuse, neglect, etc.
bindi< dancer: So true.
dancer< bindi: It takes a lot of introspection to work through and release
that form of karma.
Yopo< Ben: So, attractions and attachments are the attributes our souls
carry on a voyage through many lifetimes ... are those the things which
most determine the circumstances into which our vessels sail?
Ben< Yopo: Yes, I believe that we (souls) are led by our own desires,
attractions, attachments. Therefore, *what we desire* is the key. Desire
determines direction, and direction determines destination, which is another
name for destiny.
c_breeze< I don't really see attachments to loved ones bringing us back.
We could all be together in other dimensions. There has to be more.
Ben< Hinduism and Buddhism both speak of reincarnation as being trapped
or bound to the wheel of karma, and therefore something to escape from.
Hinduism makes that escape seem almost impossible. Buddha taught an "easier"
or more effective way to do it.
Lotus< Ben: Respectfully, as I just slid in here ~ but Hinduism's vehicle
is very profound, not at all slow.
[Ben< Lotus: I didn't mean to imply that Hinduism's concept of escape
from the Wheel of Karma is trivial or slow, only that it is usually presented
as very difficult to do, which perhaps makes it seem more difficult than
it actually is or can be.]
Tigerlily< Ben: I think a lot of Westerners take a more fluid approach
to karma, and don't see it as black and white and classical definitions.
I was under the impression that we reincarnate to learn more about love.
[Ben< Tigerlily: Yes, I am sure that many souls reincarnate to learn
more about love -- but I am equally sure that many do so for a wide variety
of other reasons.]
MonaHawke< Ben: I'm curious what you think of the idea that before we
incarnate each time, we get a good overview of our lives laid out for us
according to what we are coming in to work on and have a fair degree of
say-so beforehand regarding how our lives will unfold.
Ben< MonaHawke: Yes, regression to the planning stage prior to this life
can yield some interesting data. However, some souls seem to come back with
little or no planning, just to "get back in the game".
Awenydd< I believe I reincarnated to learn my Karmic lessons ... and
once regaining my "glory" to be the guide and teacher to my children,
to show them a light that is not common in this world today.
LEGS< Awenydd: Beautifully stated...
Deer< Ben: My life has been a hard one with so many things wrong with
me. All I can figure is I must have been a real jerk. Have you ever found
a way to deal with karma in the here and now to make this life any easier?
Tigerlily< Deer: I was in a very profound "stuck" place for
about 20 years. Every day I prayed to be shown a way to be released. Nothing
changed right away, but I have to say that prayer helped. Eventually my
relationship with God became the primary thing in my life. Then, about 13
months ago, I really, really hit the LIGHT. It made me glad I had prayed
and had not given up.
Awenydd< Tigerlily: That is refreshing and inspiring. Thank you for sharing
that with us. That means a lot to me.
Lotus< Tigerlily: That's beautiful***
Deer< Tigerlily: I never give up. I just step back once in a while and
yell, but always come back. I just get depressed sometimes.
dancer< Tigerlily: I also am glad you shared that... thank you.
Yopo< Ben: Sometime (to continue the analogy) I would be curious to know
what other attributes you believe this soul carries with it from lifetime
to lifetime, what is our permanent cargo, and what is not. But that, I suppose,
would be another topic.
Ben< Yopo: Spiritual "baggage" of the soul also addresses a
lot of things that souls do or try to do even if they don't reincarnate.
Like five generations of ghosts still trying to run the family business
through one incarnate descendant, for example.
greyman< Yopo: Not sure about everyone. My "excess baggage"
was a love of mathematics from a very early age. This must have come from
an early life.
Tigerlily< greyman: I am a good cook, but never learned how... once had
a past life fragment about being a baker's daughter. *s*
Yopo< greyman: I wonder if "love of mathematics" is the thing
carried, or the thing attracted. One might, perhaps, carry a strong desire
for order, and that might then attract one to mathematics, or perhaps turn
one to the composition of symphonic music. I can see this quickly becomes
complicated. (*smile*)
greyman< Yopo: Yes, strong emotional loading. Natural inborn encouragement.
If somehow bottled, I wonder if it can be directed for a helpful purpose?
windy< greyman: Mathematics are helpful in so many professions. I don't
know why, but architecture and computers keep coming to mind.
greyman< windy: My biological sister has a talent for music. I wish I
had her talent. But I wonder if I had the natural attraction for it, things
might be different?
Tigerlily< Deer: Dark nights of the soul can last a long while, but faith
enters in. I still get depressed, but there is now a joy in my heart that
hardly ever leaves. I figure I earned it ... but maybe that's too egotistical.
It was grace.
FRAML< Tigerlily: Not egotistical. You struggled, never gave up, and
were partly carried until you were out of the shadows of the canyon to the
sunlit rim.
LEGS< FRAML: What you said to Tigerlily is well phrased and is probably
true of many of us. And so important that she has this now to reach out
to others, and perhaps help carry them to the sunlit rim... or beckon them
onward.
Ben< Lotus, Deer: The question is: how can a soul escape from the wheel
of karma in *this* lifetime? There are more than one teaching of how to
do that, and more than one envisioned outcome of doing so. This is what
I would like to set up for discussion next week.
Lotus< Ben: A wonderful topic for next week***
Deer< Ben: I would love to be involved it that topic.
Lotus< Only thing is, if one has not experienced the various traditions
for some time, it is difficult to experientially understand their power
and true meanings.
dancer< I have experienced a new twist in my meditations, as I have sought
Oneness with the light above all else. Everything including me becomes just
molecules floating and intermingling ... it is so easy to see the oneness
when that happens. Sounds strange, but it is wonderful to experience.
c_breeze< dancer: I would like to get to that place.
dancer< c_breeze: It has just started happening within the last few months.
It's incredible.
c_breeze< dancer: I am going to try -- will probably take a while.
dancer< c_breeze: Never know, might not take long at all. *s*
FRAML< c_breeze: Click on Ben's name or my name and then look for "A
Small Explanation." It is a place to begin, and where I began. It is
another way of discernment. In sorting out whether the message is coming
from a messenger wishing to help or one desiring to control you.
c_breeze< OK, FRAML, I already have you book-marked. Just had not gotten
that far. Thanks.
dancer< FRAML: I printed that a few days ago... I love it.
windy< If you all haven't gone to Ben's page, I recommend it. He discusses
his personal experiences with the topics that he discusses here with us
... and also discusses the concepts themselves in depth.
Tigerlily< dancer: I sometimes use the word "God realm" to
describe the feeling of oneness that sometimes comes. I also kind of use
this term/feeling/intuition to discern whether or not I trust a spiritual
teacher/healer... sometimes I get a "God realm" feeling from them...
other times not.
dancer < Tigerlily: I like that term. I also live pretty much instinctually...
what feels right, what doesn't.
greyman< Tigerlily: Neat.
Deer< Tigerlily: I find your words soothing.
Tigerlily< Deer: This makes me feel good ... thanks for telling me.
03. Karma Klatch
Session 2: Sat 04 Oct 1997
Ben< Last week I mentioned that there are several concepts of how to
escape from the wheel of karma in one lifetime. Tonight I'd like to explore
one set of those concepts. I have extracted four passages of scripture and
will post one of them. After we have discussed it, I will post another.
Hopefully, we will discuss all four passages tonight.
Ben< These scriptures are from The Bhagavad-Gita (Translation by Swami
Prabhavananda and Christopher Isherwood), Chapter IX, The Yoga of Mysticism
Ben< (1) "They that are versed in the triple Veda [scriptures],
worshipping me [Krishna is speaking as an avatar of the god Vishnu, the
Preserver] with the rites appointed, drinking the wine of the gods' communion,
cleansed from their sinning; these men pray for passage to Heaven, thus
attaining the realm of Indra, home of the happy. There they delight in celestial
pleasures. Pleasures more spacious than any earthly they taste for awhile,
'till the merit that won them is all exhausted; then they return to the
world of mortals. Thus go the righteous who follow the road of the triple
Veda in formal observance; hungry still for the food of the senses, drawn
by desire to endless returning."
Ben< Okay, what does this say to you? What do you think of it? YOUR TURN
searchin< It says that if you study the scriptures and observe their
rituals, do good works and enjoy mortal pleasures during your lifetime on
earth, you will return to spirit and enjoy that world until your "deposit"
has been used up. You will then return in another incarnation to learn more.
greyman< Seeking pleasure for it's own sake seems a tad self centered.
LYRA< greyman: I don't see indulging in pleasures there as being self
centered but merely a resting period before the next incarnation.
greyman< LYRA: If I had access to that realm, I think I would search
for more wisdom and fellowship. The reference to indulging in pleasures
reminds me of the folks getting "stoned" in college dorm rooms
in the 60's and 70's. They were in "orbit" with pleasure, but
not of much use.
LYRA< greyman: OK, now I understand what you mean. Yes, I agree in that
sense with you.
FRAML< Ben: Two points: (1) that all our goodness here is only temporary
once our soul ascends. (2) that those who are good but like "the good
life" are going to bring themselves right back to this plane of existence.
LadyV< I feel that the circle does not end for them.
LYRA< LadyV: Is there an end to incarnation? and if so what is at this
end??
Ben< LYRA: One of the risks in reincarnation is that the soul may become
trapped as an earth-bound ghost, lose track of time, and eventually wither
away.
Trudy< Ben: What is this about spirits withering away? I didn't think
they did that, unless they just gave up and became inert.
Ben< Trudy: Yes, that is how souls wither away. They give up and become
inert.
LadyV< I feel from the passage that they are foolish; they pray to go
into heaven and reach bliss, and return to reality, and then seek yet again
the heaven for their desires. To me it is a circle without end. The end
would be to cease the desire.
FRAML< Another aspect is that if you expect to find pleasures in the
spirit realm that you find here, then you will go up (providing you are
good) but not to the highest level where you would stay.
Ben< I see this passage as saying that scripture study is not enough,
and that religious formalities and rituals won't hack it. The key is in
the last line.
Trudy< Desire brings you back to reincarnate time and again... that's
what the last line says.
[Ben< Trudy: Yes. And it also identifies the primary type of earth-binding
desires: "hungry still for the food of the senses, drawn by desire
to endless returning."
Ben< (2) "Those who sacrifice to the various deities will go to
those deities. The ancestor-worshippers will go to their ancestors. Those
who worship elemental powers and spirits will go to them. So, also, my devotees
will come to me."
Ben< What does this passage say to you? Or remind you of? YOUR TURN
FRAML< Who or what you worship is where you will go to after death. If
you worship the trees, I guess that means you become one. I'll leaf it there.
LYRA< It tells me that what we treasure is what we get; what we sow,
we harvest. If I treasure to help, I will be rewarded for it. If I treasure
to hurt others I will feel pain myself.
searchin< We will all go to the Creator we have followed after mortal
death. But is it possible to go to different deities in different incarnations?
Ben< searchin: It is possible to worship different gods in different
incarnations.
Caelum< Different Gods in different incarnations? How can there be different
Gods?
Ben< Caelum: A god is an object of worship. Whoever or whatever you worship
is your god. Thus, there are many such objects of worship.
searchin< Ben: That is strong support for the different beliefs. If we
experience following a different deity in each incarnation, we would be
better rounded in training, yes?
Ben< searchin: No, it isn't as simple as that. The various paths don't
all lead to the same destination. Some paths are dead ends. Some are traps.
searchin< Ben: Yes, you are right. I forgot there are false religions
that can mislead those who are eager to learn.
Ben< ALL: Suppose your god is Mammon, the Syrian god of worldly wealth.
Where would that god lead you?
Trudy< Mammon will lead you back to earth, where you can accumulate money,
and all that money will buy.
LadyV< I am confused here, as it states the food of the senses is what
draws them back. What do senses have to do with heaven unless one perceives
heaven this way? The question to me would be, What is the desire? As to
2... like returns to like, and what one perceives is what one is both here
and there... I feel.
LYRA< LadyV: I call food of the senses earthly pleasures and desires.
That is what draws some to return here.
greyman< If that is the case, I'm in big, big trouble! I like technology.
I will miss electricity!
LadyV< greyman: Yes, and for me, I want a cigarette ... that I am denied
here. (smiling)
FRAML< FT. Knox & Nieman Marcus, here I come.
LYRA< FRAML: LOL
greyman< LadyV, LYRA: Amen, sisters!
LYRA< greyman: *S*
Ben< LadyV: "Hungry still for the food of the senses" is any
desire for physical, sensual, sensory experience. Any such desire requires
a physical body.
LadyV< Ben: Yes, and then in order to have this, they return to a physical
body. Is it by choice? or do they inhabit someone else?
Ben< LadyV: Souls who want a physical body may try to take over someone
else's body, or they may take a new body from conception to death (that
is reincarnation).
LadyV< Ben: You mean people return for the pleasure of it? I am serious...
who would want to suffer again this life? This I do not comprehend.
Summer< LadyV: I don't think we look at it as suffering when we are deciding
when to reincarnate, I think we look at it as a way to grow, since our spirit
doesn't look at things the same way as our ego.
Yopo< Hmm... It is difficult to imagine a place or a state where things
are NOT things of the senses. They are our windows on reality. To desire
what we know by them in a way is to desire being itself. I am confused.
LadyV< Yopo: Good point. One may have to change a bit the perception
of being.
LYRA< LadyV, Yopo: I think once we let go of thinking or imagining ourselves
in this body and further look at what can be done without touch, etc, we
get closer to understanding how to exist without those senses. One example
is love... I don't need a body to feel love for another being. *S*
FRAML< Yopo: In the after-life we shouldn't need our physical senses.
LadyV< FRAML: Speak for yourself on that one. I think we feel physical,
but in a different sense of sharing. We share auras there... I feel... we
can share them here also... but then that is another thing.
Ben< Yopo: Incarnate souls tend to rely so much on the physical senses
that they forget they have spiritual counterparts of those senses. It's
like a radar navigator who forgets he can look out the window. I've been
there, done that. (smile)
Yopo< Ben: Ah, yes... We have our little windows to peer out through
here, but the panes are small and dirty, and our view beyond the glass at
times obscured by our own reflections.
Lor< Yopo: I perceive we tend to be "blinded" by the inputs
from our physical senses to the degree that our perceptions of the still
inner voice deep within our being is hardly noticed unless we make the effort
to focus on what that voice says to us.
Yopo< Lor: (nodding)
Trudy< Ben: I would think it would be important for us to remember past
lives, if for no other reason than to offer us incentive not to come back
here. Why can't we, as a rule, remember?
Ben< Trudy: We can remember to some extent, but it's basically a blessing
that we don't remember more than we do. Not remembering our past lives gives
us a fresh start. If we remembered more fully, we would be more likely to
remain in whatever rut we were in, chasing the same old desires, trying
to fight or re-fight the same old wars. A fresh start is better for most
of us.
Ben< (3) From the Bhagavad-Gita: "Whatever man gives me in true
devotion: fruit or water, a leaf, a flower: I will accept it. That gift
is love, his heart's dedication."
Ben< What does selection (3) say to you, or remind you of? YOUR TURN
LadyV< I have felt that the Bhagavad-Gita is based mainly on love anyway.
I agree with number 3. I feel it is true.
LYRA< In my interpretation, it tells me not to turn down a gift that
comes from the heart.
greyman< It's the thought that counts!
Yopo< Hmm... Think I concur with greyman on this point. The outward form
of the ritual is not relevant, only that it be an expression of love and
devotion.
Summer< It doesn't matter what the gift is as long as it's from the heart.
When we give ourselves to God in love, it doesn't matter how we got there
or how many sidetracks we took.
searchin< The honor afforded is not the gift itself, but the love in
which it was given.
Ben< searchin: Yes.
Summer< I like searchin's idea. It doesn't matter whether the gift was
something expensive or something tattered and worn, we should look at the
manner in which it was given. I would feel more honored to receive something
that may be useless but was the person's only possession than to receive
an expensive gift from someone who has a lot of money.
LYRA< Summer: Fully agree with you there. *S*
Trudy< Summer: That was exactly the point to the gift from "The
Littlest Angel."
Lor< Trudy: I believe that we are granted the privilege of being able
to incarnate into this experience to learn or develop how we want to choose
as to how to react with others, including what would be our choice as to
the nature of the God we would choose to hold in esteem. Such opportunities
on the other side apparently are quite different, to the point that we do
not learn or develop as quickly and effectively there. For one thing, we
tend to lose track of what time and space mean there, from what I have been
able to determine.
Ben< Lor: This planet is subject to more-or-less periodic mass extinctions.
After the next one, it will be rather more difficult to find a berth (birth)
on this planet in which to learn our lessons.
Lor< Ben: Your point is well taken, as it places a sense of urgency to
get things straightened out right now while we can.
Ben< As I said, the Bhagavad-Gita is not the only source for essentially
this same teaching.
FRAML< Ben: Are we to make physical sacrifice to the god/s, as cattle,
sheep and doves were offered in ancient Israel?
Ben< FRAML: No, that isn't what the Bhagavad Gita teaches. It isn't the
physical gift or the sacrifice, but the love that motivates the gift.
LadyV< Lor: The term reincarnation is new to me. If I chose to return
and were allowed to do so, I would want to clean up the mess I made in the
first place. I would want to attain the highest heaven... if this be so.
Perhaps this is what you are also saying but in a different way?
Lor< LadyV: I refer you to my remarks in the session two weeks ago (found
on Ben's site under Seminars). This should help clarify my concept of what
incarnating is all about.
LadyV< Lor: Thank you.
Ben< (4) From the Bhagavad-Gita: "Whatever your action, food or
worship; whatever the gift that you give to another; whatever you vow to
the work of the spirit; O son of Kunti [Arjuna, a human], lay these also
as offerings before me. Thus you will free yourself from both the good and
the evil effects of your actions. Offer up everything to me. If your heart
is united with me, you will be set free from karma even in this life, and
you will come to me at the last."
Yopo< Freeing ourselves from BOTH the good and the evil effects.
LYRA< Ben: One thing I don't understand there is, why do I have to free
myself of good effects ?
Ben< LYRA: Good karma is also binding, because we may well want to do
it again and again.
LYRA< Ben: Oh, wow, never thought of it that way. Thank you.
FRAML< If our actions are to selflessly help others, and not for the
pleasure in doing it, then there is a chance to get out of the Karmic reincarnation
cycle.
LadyV< FRAML: Then if I hear you right... the key to staying put is to
sacrifice? Where does it say in the scriptures it is better to obey than
sacrifice? Yes, I see what you are saying.
FRAML< LadyV: Not necessarily to sacrifice, but to help others without
any strings attached. I come in here and treat others as I want to be treated.
I practice rather than preach. If any choose to follow the same spiritual
path as me, then that is good, but I am not concerned as to how many, if
any do. I am a sower of seeds, God is the reaper of the crop.
LadyV< FRAML: Unconditional love will get you into bliss for sure. Few
attain this. It is the goal we all seek. It is the basis for most religious
doctrine, whatever it is. I feel, however, that only the love of parent
is truly unconditional, and even then I have questioned this. I see the
points you are making. In a sense what good one does returns. It is the
law of life, just as evil returns. I understand, I think. Well, OK I'm working
on it. (smiling)
searchin< Whatever we do, we are to offer it in love, not any other motivation,
on His behalf, as we are a part of him. This will protect us from evil that
may come about from another force as a result of our actions. If we offer
our actions in this way, we will incur no karmic debt should it go wrong
somehow.
Lor< searchin: Well stated -- seems like you are coming closer to finding
the object of your searching.
searchin< Lor: Some days I understand more than others! I still have
a long way to go! Bless you for your statement, though! :)
Yopo< I recall this discussion between Krishna and the warrior took place
before Arjuna went into battle. Arjuna had expressed his reluctance to slay
his friends, his kinsmen, who were in the opposing army. As did he, I find
this an "evil" action to contemplate. Krishna is encouraging him
to proceed.
Ben< Yopo: Yes, people have made much of the setting of the Bhagavad-Gita,
and thus missed the message. Krishna is telling Arjuna that what Arjuna
is concerned about really doesn't matter in terms of the life of the soul.
Yopo< And yet, Arjuna's concerns seem to stem from love. Perhaps I'm
not quite ready to "get" this yet.
Ben< All this comes back to what I said a couple of weeks ago: What one
desires (loves, wants, yearns for, craves) determines the direction a soul
will go. The fact that Arjuna doesn't *want* to kill his kinsmen indicates
he has already released his desire to kill (karma of hatred), and so he
will not reincarnate to do that again.
LadyV< Ben: In that case, we had best work on letting go of many things...
which is wiser anyway and allows the soul to go on to the source. If this
reincarnation be proven true, then we had best work hard in the now to do
this... but then again who among us is able to do this? Interesting...
FRAML< LadyV: Letting go of things is the key. To let go of the desire
that the pleasures, people, material items of this life are the entire meaning
of existence. We can establish stretchable caring connections to loved ones
that will let us go up to the Light and be out of the reincarnation cycle.
LadyV< FRAML: Thank you.
Yopo< This still perplexes me. We think we know good from evil. If we
free ourselves from their effects, does this not imply the distinction does
not really matter?
Summer< Yopo: Good point! Would there be a distinction if we freed ourselves
from it?
SEEK< Well said, Summer.
searchin< Yopo: It is all in the motivation for the action.
Yopo< searchin: Sometimes not, when you are on the receiving end of an
"evil" act prompted by a "good" motivation. Alas, such
distinctions can become very subjective.
searchin< Yopo: I may have misunderstood, but I thought the quotation
from Ben dealt with things that we, ourselves do. If any evil should befall
another when we have made an action motivated by love, we would not incur
bad karma as a result. // Ben... is that correct?
Yopo< searchin: I would very much like to believe that. And yet, in this
world at least, turbulent energies move through nature, and through the
world of men. Even if all were motivated by love, things we deem "bad"
or "evil" would of necessity still occur. Hmm... There's something
important in that observation, I think, but it eludes me.
LadyV< searchin: I am curious about that also. Is love the saving Grace
for our human errors?
searchin< LadyV: Love is the saving grace. If we could all learn to love,
true pure love, then we could achieve what was meant to be from the beginning.
Ben< searchin: Those who have unintentionally harmed someone else may
feel an awful need to make it right, a karmic debt, that they may not be
able to pay. How can one be released from this karma?
LadyV< karmic debt, meaning you know when you get to the other side that
you messed up and did not know about it, but you have to, or choose to,
come back to get it straight... with whomever. Which means they have to
meet you in at least one life to resolve it. Seems complicated to me.
searchin< Ben: Ask forgiveness from the injured party.
Ben< searchin: Yes! In soul rescue work, those who need to ask forgiveness
of someone are helped to find that soul so they can do so. Thus they are
released.
LadyV< Who is chosen to do this soul-rescue work?
Ben< LadyV: It isn't a matter of being "chosen". Those who
do soul-rescue work are assisted by the angels who also enjoy rescuing souls.
LadyV < Ben: Do the angels choose the soul rescue workers because the
person is striving to get their act together, or is this the choice of the
perceived God?
Ben< LadyV: It isn't very complicated. If you saw someone trying to help
a child in need, would you try to help that person help the child if you
could? There is a God who rescues souls. Those who rescue souls are helped
by the angels who are agents of that God.
LadyV< Ben: That makes sense. (smiling) The only thing is that life has
taught me that one had best think about rescue in less serious terms, as
you suggested, because if you interfere in the work of the Spirit in the
life of that person, the Holy Spirit will pick you up and put you aside.
He or she has other plans. But this is only my belief system. What I am
saying is, the matter is serious and not to be entered lightly and first
and foremost. The ego-center had best be reckoned with.
Ben< LadyV: Yep, there is such a thing as a "do-gooder" who
goes around trying to "rescue" folks who don't need it or don't
want it. The angels usually don't help them. However, a lot of rescue work
is done by angels responding to those who simply pray for another.
greyman< Ben: Yes, mis-guided boy scouts.
LadyV< Ben: In this we agree. I feel that prayer is this, whether it
be with drums, incense, or a cross, or whatever, it is asking for the angel
to sit next to you and aid you. Yes, I agree. It is universal, I feel.
Ben< LadyV: One of the lessons of the Bhagavad-Gita is, the form doesn't
matter; the desire does.
LadyV< Ben: True.
LadyV< Yopo: I agree with you that there is not perfection... good and
evil reside together. In my mind they do.
searchin< Yopo: I cannot agree with you without reservation. I have never
experienced a world of pure love, but I would think that in such a world,
evil could not exist.
Yopo< searchin: I understand your distinction. I was talking about THIS
world, where we have natural disasters, where one animal must kill another
to live, where cultures compete for resources too few to maintain them all.
searchin< Yopo: Yes, that is the way of THIS world. On that I agree.
*smile*
Ben< Yopo: This world is an interesting place to visit, but I wouldn't
want to live here. (smile)
Lor< Yopo: Not just freeing ourselves from evil effects, but developing
our innate understandings about appreciating what is truly good and how
to do good, how to interact helpfully, fulfillingly with others, as well.
LadyV< Well, I don't mind giving a hand up, but then my hand may be smacked,
so I question this.
Lotus< Yopo: It is suggested that "bad or evil" and dualistic
concepts like that are mental perceptions, ultimately not existing in the
pure ultimate state of being. So the more one links to the greater love,
the less one is bound by these concepts in motivation or action.
Lor< Ben: Re your remark about not wanting to live in this world: Don't
we sense that we have elected to incarnate here in this world for some purpose
-- not for just some of its worldly pleasures, but for what it offers us
as a training facility and the chance to better express and enter into loving
relationships that we can take back with us?
Yopo< Lor: Yes, I suspect that must be true. I don't believe we just
get thrown into this mess to see if we can work our way out of it. There
must be a purpose for coming here.
Lor< There is a wise saying that we should not be attached to things
of this world, but note that does not define what is of value in the spirit
world, such as love and laughter, etc.
LadyV< Lor: Touching heaven here is not so hard, I think, when times
come and great joy is experienced, perhaps those are things of the spirit
world sharing with us. I would hope so anyway... truly I would hope so.
Lor< LadyV: There is surely a useful reason that we experience both good
and evil in this dimension, for without either one we would lose a sense
or measure of the other.
LadyV< Lor: Good point!
Ben< Yopo: The things we deem good and bad are often erroneous assumptions
-- or false doctrine. Thus we are led to want what we do not need, and to
flee what we need not fear. This is delusion, Maya, which we need to transcend
by seeking to learn the truth, especially what is truly good and truly bad
for souls.
Yopo< Ben: Well, I must admit that good oftentimes comes from things
we might initially deem evil. The growth one might experience in coming
to terms with the death of a friend, perhaps. I suppose we seldom see all
of the truly relevant results of any particular happening.
Lor< LadyV: I guess what is bothering me about Yopo's remark about the
need to let go of what we think of as good perhaps goes too far if it includes
spiritually good things that we experience while being incarnated in this
domain.
greyman< Lor: Yes, but I hope I can learn vicariously. There are too
many evil things that do not need to be experienced.
Lotus< Yopo: The ultimate nature of beingness speaks to our "perceptions"
of "this" world. Ultimately, there is no death, no destruction
or creation. From that state there is only that pure state with no perception
of opposites. It is a little difficult to understand initially, but eventually
becomes more clear with study and one's spiritual practices.
Yopo< Lotus: My higher self agrees. My monkey-body recoils in horror.
(*smile*)
Lotus< Yopo: Hahahaha ~ yeaaaah, I know exactly what you mean! Thank
goodness the higher self... eventually... prevails. **hahaha** (we hope)
LadyV< I feel that when evil comes, or perceived evil, whether one can
detach and forgive is the essence. It cannot be stopped. There is a higher
hand that does this, but to resist just gets you more of it. There are others
that do this for you... the angels I suppose.
Ben< ALL: Here's another type of karmic debt to consider: Suppose someone
did you dirty and you honestly feel that he or she owes you an apology.
What then?
searchin< It is best to forgive the person. Otherwise it would bind you
both.
LadyV< searchin: I agree. Let it go... and pray for the turkey!
LYRA< searchin: I agree. What is the sense in keeping your feelings attached
to it? There are other more important things to think about than to carry
hurt feelings around with us.
greyman< I'd just get over it. Not much value as time goes on.
Yopo< I suppose it depends: If making your displeasure known serves the
end of greater understanding, well and good. If, on the other hand, you
simply want to "even the score", you are being drawn into a negative
sort of attachment.
Lotus< Well, it is probably best to look at your own "identification"
with the karmic debt, and let go of your expectation of an apology. Otherwise
you will keep yourself bound in the dualistic seesaw of good-bad and slow
down your inner awakening to higher love.
searchin< But there is more to that. If I think I have forgiven, but
continue to think about the incident and feel resentment, I have not truly
forgiven. It is only when I can FORGET as well as forgive that I can achieve
true freedom from it.
LEGS< Ben: If someone did me dirty, I first would pray that it didn't
happen to me or anyone else from them again... and ask that the error of
the ways be shown... especially if I provoked the action inadvertently.
LadyV< When a man makes me mad, he has got me. Interesting... and so
true.
Lor< Yopo: With re to learning from a grieving experience, etc., I perceive
at least one reason for choosing to incarnate into this mess is that we
get to learn better as to what and how to consider what is "good"
and what is not. Our experience here can serve to remove some of our confusion.
Hopefully, we do not incur too many spiritual type debts that are beyond
our ability to repay.
Ben< Yopo: As long as we think someone owes us an apology, and especially
if it is true, we place a string to our feelings in his or her hands.
Yopo< Ben: Didn't quite mean it that way. Sometimes confrontation is
useful; I may come to understand my own misinterpretation of events by expressing
my feelings. Or the other party may reflect on their own actions, and understand
our relationship better. Perhaps I just want to give that string a bit of
a yank, before letting it go. (*smile*)
Ben< Yopo: You can only yank a string that you hold in your hand. However,
yes, I agree: sometimes confrontation is useful, even necessary. The point
is to be free of our own programmed reactions, free to choose.
greyman< Yopo: Insightful, at times the required course of action. *G*.
LadyV< Yopo: You mean "Discuss the contract." Sometimes that
may help. I see what you are saying. I would feel that behind all anger
is pain anyway, and Yopo would see this. But then not all are as sensitive
as you are. (smiling) And it is a risk to walk the extra mile with your
brother. Tell you what, if I need a friend on my side I would call for you.
Yes, I see what you mean.
Yopo< LadyV: You honor me with kind words and thoughts, perhaps undeserved,
but I thank you.
FRAML< LadyV: Example: A year ago last spring I was visiting my home
town and saw my ex-wife at church. For the FIRST time in 17 years of being
divorced from her, I felt neither hurt from the memory of her walking out
on me nor desire or hoping that she was hurting for what she did. Somewhere
in prayer I finally forgave both her and myself for what happened. But it
was a bitter 17 years before it happened. Thus I detached one "earth
binding" link.
Lotus< {{{FRAML}}}
LadyV< FRAML: If she left you, she was most unwise, and I would want
to unbind her also. How about that!
greyman< FRAML: I can just hear that broken link pinging down that rocky
gorge. LadyV: I do not think that is a problem. At least I hope so.
LadyV< FRAML: Yes, I see your points made.
searchin< I think the more resentment, anger, etc., we carry with us,
the harder it is to learn. Like having cataracts on your eyes.
LadyV< searchin: I agree with you. It is hard to sleep at night with
fear on one side and guilt on the other. Better to let it go.
Lor< searchin: Forgetfulness is not the best attribute, as it is not
really very practical (I keep remembering), but choosing to just let the
matter drop, i.e.: let it go, seems best to me.
Ben< searchin: To forgive means to release, to let go. It does not mean
to pardon or excuse or exonerate -- only to "Let the trespass go into
the past and let the trespasser go his own way." That sets us free.
LadyV< Someone said to me today that people who perceive wisely have
had many spiritual lifetimes, and in these lifetimes they have sacrificed
personal pleasures and in the end they aid mankind... consciously or unconsciously.
Ben, would this be a true statement about reincarnation?
Ben< LadyV: Some souls do that. However, one can sacrifice personal pleasures
and aid mankind without reincarnating. That's what the angels and as-angels
do, when they descend from the Light to help. Reincarnation is motivated
by some type of earthly desire.
Ben< ALL: This has been an excellent discussion. Thank you all. I know
I loaded a lot of scripture this time, and you may want to take another
look at it after I get this session posted, to see what else it implies.
03. Karma Klatch
Session 3: Sat 18 Oct 1997
Ben< The future aspect of the mechanical doctrine of karma basically
says: What you do moment by moment tends to accumulate, toward good or evil,
and the balance of that accumulation will determine your future state of
existence. Thus it portrays an inevitable feed-back to the individual in
which good deeds will be rewarded and evil deeds will be punished.
Ben< In effect, this doctrine is a form of religious governance that
tries to motivate people to do good and not evil, right here and now, by
predicting their future rewards and punishments. This effect is similar
to the Jewish, Christian, and Moslem doctrines of judgment, in which everyone
will be repaid for their good or evil deeds. All such doctrines implement
a desire to govern people without having to resort to violence. And more
important, they reflect the nearly universal desire for justice, in which
good things happen to good people and bad things happen to bad people. Justice
is portrayed as inevitable in the next life, or the next world, or the last
day, because it certainly doesn't happen often enough in this world.
Ben< Okay, what are your observations, comments, or questions about those
two postings? YOUR TURN
JamesRD< Those beliefs, to me, seem to dwell deep within, and I believe
are in all of us to some extent.
Ben< JamesRD: Surely the desire for justice is deep within most of us.
And we are frustrated when we see it not happen.
JamesRD< And therein lies what we truly feel within, Ben. I don't feel
religion of any sect has anything to do with what we all know and believe
within. Karma appears to me to have become another label for what it is
we feel.
HeartDancer< Ben: Metaphysical definition of oneness and duality.
FRAML< Ben: So be good or you'll suffer in the future -- for Karma, back
here, for Judeo-Christians, in hell.
K'am< So, Ben, Karma is a guide to your actions in this life, to motivate
you to do good so that you will reap rewards in the next life?
Ben< K'am: That is the effect of belief in that teaching. At this point,
I'm not considering whether or not the doctrine is true, only the effects
of believing it.
K'am< Then surely if the belief in Karma is strong, the lives of those
who follow the role of goodness would make the world a better place in which
to live, regardless of any rewards that were to come now or later. And as
to the lack of justice in our world ... it is so warped that we may never
see it be what it should be in our lifetime!
blueye< Very well said, K'am. I agree.
Ben< K'am: Yes, if belief in Karma is strong, lives can be affected for
the better. (However, some say, "Oh well, I'll goof off this time and
try to do better next time")
Yopo< Well, it is hard for me to know if the expectation of justice preceded
the karma and reward/punishment concepts, or if my expectations arise as
result of those concepts being here already.
greyman< It would appear that some people come to do as they please regardless
of any religious governance doctrine.
Ben< greyman: Yes, many people seem to arrive on this planet determined
to do just as they please, regardless of any religious or other form of
governance.
Yopo< I would like to think of these ideas as being more than mere cultural
mechanisms for social control.
Cassandra< Can we alleviate our Karma by doing something to help someone?
not for that reason, of course. We help them because we want to, but does
it also help our Karma?
Ben< Cassandra: There are teachings on how to balance one's karma. Some
of them seem more difficult to accomplish than others.
FRAML< K'am & Ben: But if one bad deed means you reincarnate on a
lower level, there would seem to be no incentive to be good after the first
bad act. Also, doesn't this also reinforce a social caste system?
Ben< FRAML: The doctrine of karma is not usually interpreted as referring
to one bad deed, but to the accumulation and balance of all one's deeds.
PANDORIA< FRAML: I do not believe that a person can be reincarnated into
a lower level, because we stay where we are until we have finally reached
our own oneness.
FRAML< PANDORIA: I am referring to the levels in the Hindu social caste
system of 5 levels, from Brahmans down to the Untouchables. Not to a spiritual
caste system.
LEGS< Ben: Do those believers in faiths that speak of such Karma believe
that the same people will carry forward in their new life, and boons or
ills will be exchanged according to what happened between them in the former
life?? or just good or bad in general.
Ben< LEGS: Yes, the doctrine of karma does address relationships and
deeds between individuals -- and that's where it gets complicated!
Yopo< Uh, perhaps the idea of the "just" punishment society
metes out for those it perceives as evil-doers? We seem to think we incur
no karmic debt for inflicting such "just" punishments.
Ben< Yopo: Earthly governments basically confine their promised rewards
and threatened punishments to this life. And those who implement such laws
think they incur no karmic debts ... but it may be quite otherwise.
Yopo< Ben: Uh oh ... I see how this DOES quickly become complicated.
K'am< But don't you believe that our choices are affected by the role
that we have been given to lead ... good, evil, or indifferent?? and that
Karma can enhance our choices ... whatever they are ... whichever way we
tend to choose to act. Or do we really have a choice in the way that we
perceive and react in situations? Is it predestined as to our Karma?
HeartDancer< To me, karma is a head-center experience, cognition of the
laws of cause and effect. To step off karma is a function of the heart center
... and the mythological-socio-religious doctrines we all recognize some
of the pieces of are evidence of the fact that we all inherently realize
this. When drawn deeper into the heart center, fear and its effects are
diminished. Is this not true?
blueye< I feel, if you have had many bad deeds in your life but have
turned your life around to good deeds, that is much gain, and your bad deeds
wouldn't be accounted for if you now live and feel for good in the lives
of others.
Cassandra< I have found out in my lifetime that I have been hurt in the
same way I have hurt others (this is feeling-wise). So our deeds do come
back to haunt us.
windy< A possible exception: you choose a difficult lifetime in order
to progress at a faster rate ... ?
Cassandra< I have read that is true, windy.
greyman< windy: Faster rate?
windy< greyman: I think most souls have some say in what kind of life
they will live, and one might choose a difficult set of circumstances in
order to learn faster, much the same way we do in the physical world when
we challenge ourselves.
gladtobe< I have thought that our thoughts were our karma. Lots of times
I have made a judgment, not understanding how someone could do something
or be in a certain situation, then later I find myself there -- and then
I understand. Ouch!
windy< gladtobe: Ain't it the truth! ;-)
K'am< gladtobe: I think that is what Cassandra meant ... do unto others
... and when you do badly ... either way, it comes full circle.
windy< Also, possibly, teachers, way-showers, have difficult lives that
they did not "earn".
blueye< I am sure there are many who have difficult lives that they feel
they didn't earn. Maybe haven't earned this life but needed lessons in this
life that had not been learned in past life.
LEGS< Ben: The exceptions being perhaps when a person has great physical
suffering in this life or one of their lives that atones for much of the
bad or evil done in former lives, so that they erase more than perhaps one
lifetime with one?
Ben< LEGS: Massive personal atonement is one part of the doctrine of
karma.
Ben< ALL: Okay, next posting. There are some exceptions to this general
pattern of religious governance. Can you think of any? YOUR TURN
greyman< Yes, Federal Government punishes efficient work with less resources,
rewards ineffective efforts by throwing more money and resources to the
venture. *sigh*
windy< greyman: *sigh*
K'am< Ben: Are you speaking of something like missionary work?
Ben< ALL: I was thinking of religious or spiritual paths that don't rely
on such rewards or punishments.
hummingbird< Ben: Yes, the Inca philosophy comes to mind.
windy< The Tao? Does the Tao speak of reward and punishment?
Yopo< Well, most of the New Age folks I know don't think in terms of
punishment or reward, but instead of furthering one's spiritual growth.
I must admit, this makes a great deal more sense to me than the idea of
some sort of divine judgment or having one's heart weighed in a scale.
LEGS< Yopo: It sounds so good that perhaps it is wistful thinking ...
changing the rules to comfort the masses and draw followers to a less demanding
regimen.
Yopo< LEGS: Well, perhaps, but if one takes such ideas seriously, and
tries to work at them, you still tend to become a brighter being. Not exactly
a "cop out". (*smile*) One's fate is truly in his or her own hands.
Ben< Yopo: Yes, future rewards and punishments are a large part of what
the New Age movement has rejected. Native American religions have little
if any of it. Druidism does not emphasize it. Wicca has the "Rule of
Three" (what you do comes back to you threefold) but it is usually
interpreted as referring to this life.
windy< Chopra doesn't talk in terms of rewards and punishments, does
he?
Ben< Okay, there are several examples of paths like that. Here's another
one:
Ben< Guatama Buddha essentially opted out of the entire system of present
and future desires, attachments, rewards and punishments. He said: (1) to
live is to suffer, (2) suffering is caused by desires, (3) desires can be
destroyed, (4) and this is how to do it. Then he went on to prescribe a
way of life (the Noble Eightfold Path) that eventually leads to Nirvana.
Ben< Nirvana literally means "to blow off" and is defined as
the mental state of perfect tranquillity produced by the elimination of
one's desires.
hummingbird< Ah, to not care that we don't know that which we don't know.
Trudy< Buddhism -- the middle path. Get to the point where there is no
desire, and so be free of the cycle of death and rebirth.
Ben< Trudy: Guatama Buddha said that his basic (Theravada) path is the
way to eliminate suffering in this life.
PANDORIA< Ben: Could that also be true self acceptance?
Ben< PANDORIA: Perhaps.
Cassandra< However, before Buddha thought of a way to get out of this
life, he went through suffering, karma, etc. So did his karma teach him
how to reach Nirvana? Without it would he have come to his conclusion?
Ben< Cassandra: Good question. I don't know the answer.
K'am< Ben: How does the Theravada path prevent suffering?
Ben< K'am: Theravada Buddhism is designed to eliminate the desires that
cause suffering.
windy< I think desire is a good thing. What one desires might be bad,
but to desire ... I think the world would be full of zombies if it weren't
for desire.
Yopo< windy: Gotta agree with you there. Perhaps it is what one desires
that makes the difference.
[Ben< Yopo: Yes. It is specifically *what* one does and doesn't desire
that makes the difference. It is like driving a boat: selecting what we
do and don't desire is like steering the boat; eliminating all our desires
is like turning off the motor.]
K'am< windy, I agree. With no desires, there would be no goals, no risks,
no greatness. Complacency would rule ... and that wouldn't be good, I don't
think.
hummingbird< windy: Desire is a tough one to let go of, I understand.
However we have to be able to let go of desire if our expectation of it
does not match reality.
greyman< windy: What of desires not of this Earth?
windy< greyman: I don't mean specific desires ... just "to desire".
Desires can be emotional, physical, spiritual.
Praxus< Yes, but our desire to attain knowledge can cause suffering ...
yes?
Ben< Praxus: That's true. Ignorance is not bliss if we want to attain
knowledge.
hummingbird< Ben: How does one discern the difference between a desire
that causes suffering and one that causes joy?
Ben< hummingbird: A desire causes joy when it is fulfilled, and suffering
when it is frustrated. Total tranquillity of mind (Nirvana) is neither joy
nor suffering.
K'am< Ben: I don't think I could follow that then. As you see my feeling
from my last posting, no desires may lead to no suffering, but it also would
lead to no miracles ... new research medicine/cures/surgical ideas ... etc.
[Ben< K'am: Having no desires equals having no motivation. That is what
I was saying to Yopo in my post about turning off the motor.]
Ben< ALL: Okay, last posting for tonight coming up. It is also an exception
to the rule of religious governance, although you might not expect it in
this religion.
Ben< Jesus prescribed realignment rather than extinction of desires.
He said: (1) Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your
soul and with all your mind, (2) Love your neighbor as yourself, (3) Do
not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, but lay up for yourselves
treasures in heaven, for where your treasure is, there will your heart be
also; (4) Truly, I say to you, whoever hears my word and believes him who
sent me, has eternal life; he does not come into judgment, but has already
passed from death to life.
Ben< In this doctrine, the goal is abundant and eternal life (Hebrew
*chaiyim*, Greek *zoe*, which means liveliness, vigor, vitality, energy,
enthusiasm, and not merely existence).
K'am< Thank you, Ben ... my belief!
windy< That's a beautiful quote, Ben. :-) Good choice!
Yopo< Wonderful words! Alas, I fear the teachings of the man called Jesus
may be a bit too radical for most modern-day Christians. At least, for those
I have most often encountered. (*smile*)
Ben< Yopo: Yes, indeed. There is an awful contrast between the teachings
of Jesus and many of those who now claim his name. It often seems that their
entire doctrine boils down to "Join our church and help pay the bills,
or you'll burn in Hell." (sigh)
greyman< No semiconductors in heaven. *Sigh*.
Ben< greyman: Maybe you can *be* a semiconductor in heaven, one that
conducts blessings and nothing else. (smile)
greyman< Ben: *Grin* Thanks.
gladtobe< But that part about coming into judgment, couldn't that be
a karma?
windy< Ben: Do you think that in this quote Jesus is outlining a way
to transcend karma?
Ben< windy: Yes, I do. That's why I included it in this discussion. His
teachings emphasize devotion to one Deity, which is explained in the Bhagavad-Gita,
and detachment from *earthly* desires, as is found in both Hinduism and
Buddhism, plus he emphasizes that our love of our neighbors is essential
for our own eternal liveliness.
windy< I often wonder if this isn't what the parable about the men working
in the vineyard is all about ... some come at the beginning of the day ...
some not until almost the end ... they all get the same reward. :-)
K'am< ((((windy))))) Yes!
gladtobe< windy: Which always brings the question: which would you rather
be?
Ben< windy: The early followers of Jesus spoke of dying to the way they
were and being born anew. A fresh start, in this life, without having to
reincarnate. And they maintained that God did not count against them anything
they had done which they no longer did.
K'am< Ben: Which is what blueye said earlier: that when a person "turns"
their life around, that person can redeem whatever ills they did earlier
by the way they live their life from then on ... "born again"
Christians??
Ben< K'am: I tend to be somewhat skeptical of those who claim to be "born
again Christians" because I've seen more than a few of them who simply
became more arrogant.
K'am< Yes, Ben, but the true meaning of that "label" is to
be able to live a "new" life without being condemned by the past
events. And yes, as in everything, people do take advantage of being classified
that way, and some become smug and arrogant ... which in actuality defeats
what they had hoped to do and proves that they are indeed NOT "born
again" but merely the same person as they were. But those who really
embrace the NEW LIFE are most wondrous lovely persons who generate love
and generosity of spirit.
LEGS< Ben: Hmmm ... making a distinction between "born anew"
and "born again". There is arrogance in every walk of life.
Ben< K'am, LEGS: Yes, I know some folks who are truly "born again"
in the sense that their whole set of attitudes and behaviors has changed.
windy< I agree, K'am, regarding born-agains. I think many have grown
over the years, and truly embraced Jesus' teachings, and gotten past some
of the judgmental attitudes that seemed so prevalent a decade ago.
Ben< By the way, in the statement "You must be born again"
the Greek word translated "again" actually means "from above".
That's worth thinking about.
LEGS< Ben: Since that is the Greek for it, I think I like it better than
the usual way it is stated. Makes one realize the source.
Ben< /topic Open Discussion of Karma
LEGS< Ben: Now, what about the predestination part of Karma? Does that
mean that we choose before returning to this life (any life) what we will
be working on Karma-wise and that is all we are allowed to work on? I have
heard some say that a death is predestined and that one chose that manner
and time and place of dying before they entered life in a body. What does
this do to the free choice? Is choosing Jesus as Redeemer the only Free
choice allowed in a Karma believer?
Ben< LEGS: Past-life regressions have indicated that some souls do plan
to work on certain things in their next life, and some do not. There are
indications that some souls pre-plan one or more exit points, but can change
their minds later. No, choosing Jesus as redeemer is not the only free choice
allowed, by any means.
Yopo< LEGS: Many paths, One Destination. (*smile*)
windy< I find following the Light path quite rewarding. To me, there
is no other greater reward than Love. I don't see much happiness in the
faces of the greedy, those scratching after material things. They run around
the world in their fancy cars and gold snuff boxes complaining (maybe it's
the price one pays). Not that all wealthy people are unhappy, but happy
seems to correlate more with goodness than with evil, or so has been my
experience. Still I think its always nice to know that the door's open,
if one is only first getting the message. da? ;-)
blueye< I think no matter what we like to think, there are always some
out there for greed. I never knew what drew them so, but I have asked myself
the same question. If they only could feel the true happiness there would
be no greed.
LEGS< Ben: With such glorious doctrine, why so many unbelievers? Is it
because many have turned from the belief in Karma and punishment, soothing
themselves with ideals of walking with the Gods, of being gods themselves???
Ben< LEGS: I think a lot of people simply don't want to hear any warnings
about the future consequences of their actions or their desires. However,
many of those who come into SWC describe themselves as "ex-Christian"
for very good reasons. Basically, they have been burned by the churches
or by very bad doctrines. I can agree with almost everything they say about
what Christianity has come to mean to them, because of what they have experienced.
windy< Ben: It is said Jesus died to erase original sin ... (karma?)
Ben< windy: "Original sin" is another very handy political
doctrine. The only truth I see in it is: If we were all that good, we wouldn't
be here. (smile) And yes, I know Jesus sends angels to help rescue souls
who fell from the Light. I've been part of that work many times.
windy< On the other hand, I love material things ... flowers, trees,
lush fabrics, pretty tiles, wooden floors, a verandah ... my computer ;-)
PEOPLE :-)
Yopo< windy: Seems it is really a question of whether one owns stuff,
or the stuff owns you.
FRAML< Yopo: Your reply to windy is IMHO correct. Even to the point where
I have heard some boast that they believe in reincarnation so that they
can come back and have more sex ... it is their only goal in life.
windy< Agreed, Yopo. I think it's harder to be rich ... especially to
be born rich ... but I don't think it's bad to be rich. :-). I more meant
people who spend their lives acquiring things ... fame, fortune, whatever
... yet it doesn't seem to make them happy, nor do they use what they have
earned to find out what does.
FRAML< windy: One doesn't need to be born rich to have desires for that
which only money can buy. Look at the fights & killings among kids to
get the expensive jackets or Nike shoes. Material possessions are the only
thing they understand.
celtic< Religion is the insight into which the human existence endeavors
to place those things of mystical nature which are beyond their realm of
understanding.
FRAML< K'am: I see releasing desires as letting go of those things that
you make the entire focus of your life to the point where you "lust"
after them. You would rather have more of something than to be willing to
say, "There is a time for this now, but it is not what controls my
life."
K'am< Well, guess that in the extreme, FRAML, desires could be taken
to be that ... things that are lusted after, but then those desires become
sins ... not desires.
windy< Light and love, K'am. My whole response earlier was in response
to something someone said about my comment on the grape grove story in the
Bible. I was trying to say that goodness, spiritual choices, are their own
reward ... the most rewarding of these being Love. I was trying to come
with an example of people who seek material pleasures who although they
get what they seek are not satisfied, are not truly happy.
FRAML< K'am: re: when desires become sin. I want to read all the books
on history, that is a driving force in my life. I fear dying only because
I know it will come before I FINISH all the books I want to read. That "UNFINISHED"
business is a link to this realm that could cause me to reincarnate.
windy< FRAML: I think reading history books is a worthy desire, and if
it causes you to reincarnate in the next lifetime with the same desire ...
well, maybe its because the world needs you! :-)
FRAML< windy: I am a historian, However I have no desire to reincarnate,
but to release the binding chains of earthly desires and return to the Light
and do whatever work Jesus has for me to do.
windy< FRAML: Jesus chose to be of this world (IMHO). Jesus (and God)
must believe this world is pretty important ... and historian is an important
job. What makes you think being the best historian you can be isn't exactly
what God (or Jesus) wants you to be?
FRAML< windy: Yes, I agree that God may want me to be a historian in
this life. (After having spent 20 years in the Army. *G*) But Jesus didn't
speak of reincarnating. He spoke of going to him in the Kingdom of Heaven.
I have no desire to reincarnate, and have never believed in it. I do not
doubt that those who do believe in it may have done it.
celtic< To enter this place you should open your mind and disengage judgment.
Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease
to be amused.
Ben< celtic: Well said! "Blessed are those who can laugh at themselves"
should be added to the list of beatitudes.
celtic< Ben: Yes, I think that would be correct.
K'am< celtic: *G* I have that saying posted above my desk at work! And
do I stay amused!
celtic< It would be nice if everyone had it. Life should be fun ... or
funny. Karma is not a certainty, it is a choice. Live your life in that
manner.
PANDORIA< I have different beliefs than that of religion, accept for
the belief that we all are one of the same, and that my journey is one that
will show me all that I am and accept all that is, so that I may once again
become one with the one from whom we all have come. Love thy neighbor as
thy self has come to mean to me that my neighbor is of myself, and I can
accept myself as well as any because we are all of the same and some day
we will once again become the one that we have come from and are and have
been and will be. And until complete acceptance of the ultimate sadness
within all that is and all that we are and all that we have been, good,
bad and indifferent included, not until then will we be able to once again
become the one that we are, and become the one we all desire (so to speak).
Jasmine< Well spoken, PANDORIA. I have often thought the same because
all religions say that we all come from one.
FRAML< PANDORIA: You stated that your neighbor is yourself. I believe
that you have corrupted the meaning of the commandment. It is our neighbor
that we must treat as we wish to be treated.
Jasmine< FRAML: But also couldn't it mean that we are spiritually related
to everyone here on earth through our creator?
FRAML< Jasmine: I have never considered that. However, I don't think
being spiritually related makes our indifference or hurtfullness toward
our neighbor any less harsh. Or that it is easier to be good to them.
Jasmine< FRAML: Loving your neighbor isn't any different from loving
your parents or brothers or sisters. We still disagree and fight, but we
are truly of flesh and blood so why should being hurt by your neighbor be
any less harsh?
FRAML< Jasmine: I think we are in a semantic problem. Your neighbor can
be your blood brother or sister just as easily as the person across the
street. One must treat EVERY person you come in contact with as you wish
to be treated. Being genetically or spiritually related has no impact on
how you treat others. Also I made no mention of my reaction of how they
treat me.
Jasmine< FRAML: I understand, but my problem is that I believe that everyone
is related spiritually through God who has created every single one of us.
FRAML< Jasmine: OK, I can accept that; however, to me that does not affect
the need to "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."
I think we are saying the same thing in two different ways. If I may ask
-- What is your personal Christian denominational preference, if one in
particular? I belong to the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ).
Jasmine< FRAML: I used to be Pentecostal but I am now evangelical (Evangelical
Free Church).
Caelum< Hi everyone ... Karma is a wonderful thing, it makes everything
in life worthwhile! I smile when people are ugly to me because what comes
around goes around ... right?
windy< I think the idea that, since there is reincarnation, I can just
do what I want and put off choosing the right path, was one of the reasons
the early Church chose to kick reincarnation and karma out of their dogma.
Early Christians evidently did not disbelieve reincarnation. I am referring
to the story about when the apostle asked why a man was blind, was it because
of something he did in another lifetime? Jesus said no, that it was solely
so he could glorify God by healing the man's blindness. But Jesus did not
deny reincarnation. Also as Ben said some time ago, reincarnation was believed
by many people at that time, including the early Christians. It wasn't until
about the 5th century that the Church decided to remove it from the dogma
and call it a false teaching
Ben< windy: At least some branches of Christianity taught about reincarnation
until 553 AD when the Roman Emperor Justinian made a church council declare
the whole idea of the preexistence of souls anathema (accursed).
LEGS< Ben: I wish it were common knowledge about the Justinian edict.
windy< LEGS: Me three on the Justinian edict.
Ben< windy: I'm working on a brief summary of what happened to Christian
doctrine. Not sure where I'll post it, since my site is experiences rather
than study papers. I may have to open a new section.
windy< Ben: I will be looking forward to that. From time to time I have
people who want "the facts" like the 5th century ruling, the Justinian
Edict.
Ben< windy: Sixth Century (553 AD), at the Second Council of Constantinople.
The bishops at that council did what Justinian told them to do.
Jasmine< Ben: Why is it you do not seem to like Christianity? I would
think that as long as you are taught of right and wrong and good morals
that everyone would be happy with whatever religion it was.
Ben< Jasmine: I love the teachings of Jesus. I do not like what Christianity
became. That is why I call myself a "First Century Christian".
Jasmine< Ben: What parts of today's Christianity don't you like? I think
the only problem with today's religions is that we have lost touch with
the meaning and reason for Jesus.
Ben< Jasmine: I don't subscribe to most of the doctrines and dogmas of
any branch of modern Christianity, and virtually none of medieval Christianity.
Jasmine< Ben: Then what hope do you have if you don't have some kind
of faith? Believing in a higher being gives as much faith as you can take.
Ben< Jasmine: Don't mistake my words. I have a fervent faith in Jesus
and in God our Father. But I have no faith in organized religion as such.
Caelum< Ben: I have found that churches serve themselves more than they
serve God.
celtic< Christianity has become churchianity: it is no longer the soul
that the church saves but the building. All for the cause and not for the
spirit.
Jasmine< celtic: I do agree with you that today's Christianity has lost
touch on saving souls. That's why people have to show that faith to one
another and be inspired through the word of God by reading it themselves
and praying to God and most importantly believing he can do anything.
Ben< celtic: Yes, I use those same terms: Christianity and churchianity,
just as you do. The focus of churchianity is on preservation of the organization.
Jasmine< The only reason that religion is organized is so that others
who believe that miracles can happen may join together and be able to talk
about what God has done for them. In today's society, children are not allowed
to speak of God in classrooms, instead they have to come before school to
join with others who are like them. Children must also grow up in a society
that condemns Christians and where violence has taken over.
windy< Jasmine: I am not exactly understanding you. Do you mean here,
tonight, in Amazon now ... or the SWC in general? I have hope, lots of hope.
In fact hope is practically a nickname with me :-) and I do believe in God's
grace. I think that the times we are in now are God's grace to the wicked,
giving them even more time to change from their path, and also to those
seeking the Light a chance to reach a higher Heaven. Miracles abound in
our world. Grace is everywhere. :-)
Jasmine< windy: I meant the whole world, not just the people in this
chat room. It just depresses me that it seems that you guys are trying to
contradict what God has said in the Bible.
FRAML< Jasmine: I don't see Ben or windy contradicting anything in the
Bible. However they are disagreeing with doctrine and dogma that has been
created in the last 1900 years, and the fact that too many "Christians"
do not practice what they preach.
windy< Jasmine: I think you are misunderstanding Ben. I consider Ben
a very active Christian. He's an "everything old is new again"
Christian. Christianity became political along the way to today ... he (IMHO)
takes it back to its roots.
Jasmine< windy: I get your point, but the problem that I have is that
no one in here seems to have hope for something good to happen out of the
grace of God.
Ben< Jasmine: You might enjoy some reports of good things that have happened
out of the grace of God. Visit my site, click on "Sampler" and
then on "Spiritual Search and Rescue Operations" and read the
last one first.
Jasmine< Ben: I know that good things have happened out of the grace
of God because I am a prime example. I was almost killed 11 years ago in
a really bad accident but I believe that God kept me here because I had
work to do for him.
FRAML< Jasmine: I too agree with the concept of "Grace of God."
Jasmine< FRAML: What parts of "Grace of God" do you agree with?
FRAML< Jasmine: I believe that God forgives our sins through acceptance
of him through Jesus, that baptism is the symbol and actual cleansing of
them.
celtic< At any given time you can take yourself off the wheel of life
(karma). It is not a certainty; it is a choice. We are creators of our place
on earth; we say what we are going to do in the next life, not God. God
sent his son to show us the way back and we keep missing the directions.
He wants us to come home to him, not spend 1,000 life-times on this earth.
He has shown us the way. Why don't we follow?
Ben< celtic: Well said.
LEGS< celtic: Yes, it sounds restful to me, to take myself off the wheel
of life and accept Jesus as the Way ... to follow seeking his path as my
own, and come to know that great Truth which is our God, his and our Father.
Jasmine< celtic: I disagree, because I believe that God has a plan for
each and every one of us. He doesn't force us to make the decisions that
he wants us to make, instead he lets us choose on our own and teaches through
what we have decided.
celtic< I agree that you disagree, if you believe as you have stated.
Then where is our free will? God can not be in control of our lives and
we have free will. Make up your mind and decide which is it.
Jasmine< celtic: It can be both. God does frown upon us when we make
bad choices but he always forgives us no matter what we have done.
Caelum< We are all children of time and free will creatures. But then
honor God's plan ... the mind reels.
Jasmine< I would like to know what parts of today's Christianity that
you don't believe, because it hasn't been stated very clearly.
celtic< Jasmine: The truth is "God" could care less. We were
created by "God" out of God being alone. He wanted to experience
every facet of his creation, so he created us to be that extension, so why
would he control us?
Jasmine< celtic: He doesn't control us, he just made us to be in his
image, and he is in my life every day. He has done miracles for me that
no one else could understand; he has saved me, and I'm proud of that, and
I live by his rules everyday, so therefore he is in my life.
celtic< He has done all those things and more for me, so what is the
point?
Jasmine< Why don't you believe that? It's been in the religion ever since
the beginning of time. My point is that God is in our lives. He does have
a plan for us, but by making mistakes he teaches us.
FRAML< Jasmine: But must we learn from him only through our mistakes?
Can't we hear him in prayer and meditation and follow his guidance given
to us in that clear, small voice?
Jasmine< I believe that we learn from God through our mistakes and prayer
and we learn about God through reading the Bible.
Ben< Jasmine: I agree with you that a lot people (and this society in
general) seem to be rejecting Christianity. For example, almost exactly
half of the people who were in this room left immediately as soon as I posted
the teachings of Jesus.
LadyV< Ben: I wonder why the teachings of Jesus would frighten so many
people? Or is it easier to be unaware? May I ask?
Ben< LadyV: Many don't want to see the name "Jesus" or the
word "Christian". You've seen that happen in these chatrooms before,
haven't you? Basically, they expect that every Christian is just about to
tell them they're going to Hell.
LadyV< Ben: I see. That does not speak so well of Christians does it?
to say that any Brother or Sister is doomed? It is putting the Christian
on the Cross. There is only one that did this ... so sad ... I see the point.
Jasmine< My question is why are they rejecting God? The way they have
come to know him is that he is gentle and kind but firm and can bring destruction
upon whole countries.
Ben< Jasmine: Many are rejecting God because God has been portrayed to
them as "Santa Claus with a flame-thrower."
Jasmine< Ben: How do you think they got this image?
Ben< Jasmine: It is implied by church doctrines of reward and punishment.
celtic< Jasmine: You miss the point. We are not rejecting "God".
We have moved from 1st grade to 12th grade in our understanding of "God".
We have grown in our knowledge of his teachings, his word, his spirit. You
need to pass to the second grade.
Jasmine< Excuse me, but I'm 16 years old, celtic, and I'm not saying
that you're rejecting God fully, but if you reject his rules and what he
is then you do reject God.
Jasmine< Celtic: Maybe I didn't get my point across. In your last comment
you were making me out to be this naive person and I don't take too kindly
to insults.
celtic< Jasmine: If you only accept what was taught to you, and you haven't
formed your own opinion of what "God" means, then you live by
the word of another's teaching. What I believe in is what I have taught
me over many years. I respect your age, but take off your blinders and begin
to see the world of religion as it is, not as you see it.
Jasmine< celtic: Trust me, I know all about other religions and what
their beliefs are. I'm not the one with the blinders. I am not living through
what I've been taught, instead I have taken what I have been taught and
formulated my own opinions, and my parents respect that.
Ben< Jasmine: Your youth is showing. I've been studying religions for
50 years, and I would not say, "I know all about other religions and
what their beliefs are."
celtic< Jasmine: I leave you with your belief. May you be soft on yourself
when the world doesn't fit like it should, because your belief has no room
to grow. Your fire is great, but your path is narrow.
Jasmine< celtic: I don't believe the world to be a certain way. I take
a little from each religion that fits with another.
FRAML< Jasmine: The term I see used most often is "hypocritical".
Also that many were "chased away" from their churches (both Catholic
and Protestant) when they ask "Why and where did this doctrine come
from?" And the reply was, "If you had faith, you wouldn't be asking
why, but would believe it anyway."
Jasmine< Don't pastors know that you become more firm in your religion
by asking questions and getting answers?
Ben< Jasmine: My compliments to your pastor. No, most pastors and priests
do not welcome serious questions about their church doctrines or dogmas.
FRAML< Jasmine: My pastor does, however the pastors and priests of those
I have spoken to here over the past year have not. I have found that it
is easier to get across the message of Jesus by asking them why they no
longer believe, and then discussing with them the questions they had. I
rarely quote scripture directly, because it is a turn-off for them. I do
paraphrase it and often get "now I understand it."
Jasmine< Oh, my pastor or my youth leader don't like it that I have different
concepts of God through being raised Pentecostal, but I stand up for my
beliefs.
LadyV< Pastors and Priests are men or women, human! They are comforters
first and teachers next, shepherds if they do the job well. To my mind God
has compassion on them. They are expected to be super-human, and this is
not possible. The best teacher and leader is one that leads with kindness
and trust in what he knows ... right or wrongly it is for God to determine.
Some are called for reasons that are not clear, yet they touch lives. To
all of them I raise my glass. I would not want the job.
FRAML< LadyV: Nicely said.
Jasmine< In fact, I have been insulted by the youth leader for having
Mormon friends, but it doesn't stop me. Instead I try to put my ideas out
on the table and show them what else is out there.
Ben< Jasmine: Good for you!
Jasmine< Thank you, Ben. This thing with celtic is that I go to a church
where everyone is brought up with this one set of beliefs, and they don't
have their own opinion, so when some one tells me that I don't have my own
opinions they are getting in to a very big argument.
LadyV< Jasmine: You mean you think! Good for you. If you have formulated
your belief system at 16 years you are way ahead ... and by 20 years, you
may formulate them again. The important thing is that you and God consider
together, and listen to what is spoken to you. In the end it is you and
The God. Good for you. Never accept anything because so and so says it.
Test the waters, look at the life they lead ... the life, not the words,
is the key to any belief system. That is my soapbox. (grinning)
Jasmine< LadyV: I try to keep an open mind, and when I talk to someone
about religion I sometimes take bits and pieces of what they think. And
thanks, that really encourages me.
FRAML< Jasmine: Well, continue to persevere in serving the Lord. To claim
that he only accepts one particular human denomination's belief as the ONLY
way to him is one of the "hypocrisies" some ex-Christians have
seen. I hope he doesn't chide you for having friends that are Lutheran,
Methodist, Jewish or Catholic.
Jasmine< FRAML: I think God accepts all religions and that's why I haven't
been as faithful at church as I should be. I just see these leaders who
tell me that I should base my friendships on religion and I don't believe
that.
LEGS< Jasmine: You are essentially saying the same thing that FRAML is,
but with a wee bit different terminology. The point of this discussion tonight
was not to convince people to start believing in Karma or Buddhism and renounce
their Christian beliefs. It is an academic concept phrased in, so to speak,
layman terminology, with input invited. I chose Jesus as my Savior at the
age of eight, and have not wavered from Christianity as my faith, but choose
to learn what motivates others in their lives. You should uphold your beliefs...
bravo.
Ben< ALL: Okay, friends, it's time for me to get some rest. Peace and
blessings to each of you. Goodnight.
Jasmine< Ben: I plan on becoming a historian and I read constantly. I
know most religions and their basic beliefs.
Ben< Jasmine: Suit yourself. // ALL: Namaste. *poof*
Jasmine< You know what though, if you quote scripture it shows that you
have proof of what you are saying.
FRAML< Jasmine: I have found the quickest way to turn off non-Christians
and former Christians in SWC is to come in here quoting scripture after
scripture. Instead, I introduce the points of scripture in my discussion,
and if they say, yes, they agree, then I tell them where I found the topic.
Jasmine< FRAML: I would never quote to a non-Christian. I thought you
were talking about when a pastor and you contradict each other.
FRAML< Jasmine: Keep on reading. Examine what you read and study, learn
as many points of view as possible. Your faith will grow as you do. Continue
to ask questions, always seeking truth, rather than just for argument. And
at times suffer in silence, as we all have had to do at specific points
in our lives.
Jasmine< Thanks, FRAML!
LEGS< Jasmine: There are however various dogmatic versions of following
the path of Christianity. This is where it sometimes becomes an uncomfortable
or glaringly inept example of what following Jesus originally meant. This
is what Ben means when he refers to himself as a First Century Christian
... back to the original precepts taught by Jesus and his Apostles ... some
of those same precepts as voiced by you tonight.
Jasmine< LEGS: So let me get this straight. You're saying that I'm kind
of saying what Ben is saying?
FRAML< Jasmine: Ahh, that's were the confusion was. And take that as
an example of defining the words you use in a discussion. Ben is teaching
this series to get people to understand the meanings of the words used in
spiritual discussions, and to learn the actual teachings of different religions,
rather than "I think soul-spirit-reincarnation means this (partly because
I want it to)." If you book-mark his site, he has the text of his earlier
classes on the meaning of the words soul, and spirit, and the first two
sessions on Karma.
Jasmine< Thanks again. I'm leaving, too. Good night all.
LEGS< Jasmine: Ben will have this entire script from tonight on his page,
probably by Monday. At that time you can review and study what was said
... in detail. It is not easy for the most learned of scholars to state
some concept exactly the same. That is where experiences change the perspective
and the explanations are stated a bit differently. All here tonight apparently
(barring those who had different feelings and didn't express them) do believe
in a greater being, a supreme one who conducts our lives. Many of us accept
Jesus and base our religion in following Him; others see Jesus as another
prophet, not the Son of God; but tonight's discussion was not to address
the validity of each person's belief, merely to explain the process of Karma.
Jasmine< Thanks LEGS, and have a good night.
celtic< LEGS: Well said. I agree.
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