20. Spirituality and/or religion
Session 1 -- Spiritual *or* religious?
Spiritual Web Chat
Sat 02 Oct 1999
Ben< This seminar will explore two very large subjects, spirituality
and religion, to see where they overlap and where they don't. Tonight I
will sort of tippy-toe up to the edge of those subjects by looking at the
two adjectives, spiritual and religious.
Ben< Many people say they are spiritual but not religious. Many seem
to be religious but not spiritual. This distinction has been discussed and
argued about a great deal in recent years. Chatroom conversations (and my
email) have been full of it. In fact, several people discussed this right
after my last seminar and did a pretty good job of it, so I decided to provide
a forum for everyone to express their views.
Ben< Spirituality and religion are very personal and likely to be loaded
with emotions. Therefore, please remember the basic ground-rule for these
seminars: "Courtesy is expected. Instead of attacking what others believe,
say what you believe -- or politely ask others to explain what they post."
Ben< Although I often start with dictionary definitions and expand from
there, our own understandings are important, so I think that a personal
approach may be more appropriate in this case. Ready? Here we go.
Ben< QUESTION 1: What is your understanding of "spiritual"?
Please describe what that word means to you. YOUR TURN
Lor< Being religious without being spiritual in some sense seems strange
to me. How can that be?
Ben< Lor: Let's work our way toward that question.
Lor< Being spiritual to me suggests being sensitive to God's nature.
FRAML< Being able to pray and talk to God and Jesus. And to be able to
open yourself to his guidance and inspiration, in all that you do in your
life.
Ben< Lor, FRAML: Okay, thanks. Others?
Bink< My dictionary says 'immaterial' and 'of or relating to God' so
one would be 'spiritual' or 'spiritually minded' who does not focus upon
the material aspects of life, but the immaterial aspects.
Ben< Bink: Yes, my most basic understanding of spiritual is "not
material, not physical".
Star12< Being sensitive to the god in all of us. And working toward helping
others.
Sposashe< Spirituality to me is *your* belief system, whatever it is,
whether it is only your belief or the belief you share with many. It is
defined by you and how you feel, not by someone else and following their
beliefs of what is or isn't. It doesn't mean it can't also be that, but
that does not determine what you believe.
Ben< Sposashe: Spirituality is personal. Okay. That's why I took a personal
approach tonight.
Bink< Sposashe: I'm sure you don't mean that literally? If my belief
system is to step on or crush anybody who gets in my way, is that spirituality?
Or to gain all I can materially at whatever cost?
FRAML< Bink: The last set of seminars covered the topic you just mentioned.
*S*
Sposashe< Yes, Bink, it is yours. I may not agree with you, but it is
your right to believe it. If, say, you believe that in order to attain greatness
in the presence of your higher power/God, you have to do everything you
can to be/attain that, it is your spirituality.
Star12< Might I echo Sposashe? As this is also my belief.
Bink< So then, Sposashe, the perpetrators at Columbine, et al, were expressing
their 'spirituality'?
Sposashe< Did they define what they did as spiritual? I don't think they
did. What they did was retaliate for what they thought was unjust. Right
or wrong, it was an emotional not spiritual thing, not a belief system.
Lor< Being spiritual means being attuned to the spiritual domain in which
we are immersed, I would say.
Cassandra< Spiritual means a higher plane. Within us and yet within others,
too. Cleanness and goodness. Inspirational.
Bink< I like the biblical definition: "to be spiritually minded
is life and peace; to be carnally (materially) minded is death".
order< I think spiritual means conscious awareness of Beingness, movements
and workings of Spirit/God.
Prophetess< Spiritual is the feeling a soul has on a plane of coherent
feelings and thought.
bluestar< I think spirituality is a recognition and respect for the equality
and sacredness of all creation. I think that any belief or practice which
leads us that recognition and respect is spiritual.
Ben< ALL: Do you apply the word "spiritual" to yourself?
Star12< Yes.
FRAML< I do, although I was once told that military folks being spiritual
was a contradiction if not an impossibility. *S* (I'm retired US Army)
Awenydd< FRAML: I found my spirituality IN the Army ... to help me deal
with the situations.
Bink< I am working towards being less 'carnally' minded and more spiritually
minded. And my tradition teaches that I am a spiritual being, as are we
all.
Ben< I identify myself as a spiritual being, presently operating a physical
body. In terms of my beliefs, I am neither a materialist nor a humanist.
order< Ben: I, too, would call myself a spiritual being manifesting at
present in a physical body.
Lor< I must admit that there are times that the word "spiritual"
would not seem appropriate for some of my thinking; but at other times I
think it might. I like Cassandra's idea of it representing a "higher"
plane.
Sposashe< It is not up to me to define your spirituality or lack of it.
That is what it is all about. IMHO religion defines what it considers right
and wrong. Spirituality doesn't have those boundaries; it is all on its
own. I am a very spiritual person. I am not a religious person, but I am
a very loving, caring, sensitive person.
Bink< As for religion, I have always thought of a person's way of life
as their religion. We all have a basic set of beliefs by which we operate
our lives -- that set of beliefs is one's religion, IMHO. Thus, *everyone*
has a religion, is religious, in that sense.
Lor< Forgive me for asking just what the term "IMHO" means?
Bink< Lor: IMHO = "in my humble opinion". :-)
FRAML< Bink & Sposashe: I believe that spirituality includes a system
of ethics (right and wrong). It is an integral part of it, especially in
determining which direction I orient my spiritual seeking for guidance.
Ben< -- oops, I'm a little slow tonight. *G*
Ben< QUESTION 2: What is your understanding of "religious"?
Please describe what that word means to you. YOUR TURN
bluestar< I would go with Bink's definition of religion: a set of beliefs
that someone lives their life by.
Cassandra< Following one's Spiritual belief. Striving for purity.
EmeraldRose< What is purity?
Cassandra< Well, purity in water means it won't hurt you and is good
for you, helps you in many ways. Purity, to me, means living in the Light
of the Spirit -- free from infection of hate, jealousy and envy.
Lor< I suppose that all dealings with spirits may not be spiritual, in
the sense that Cassandra expressed anyway. Being religious possibly implies
recognizing God's interaction and presence in our lives.
Sposashe< Who decides what is right or wrong? If it is right for you
yet wrong for me, then is it right or wrong?
Bink< Sposashe: My understanding is that universal law decides what is
right and wrong. *God's* law.
Sposashe< Bink: Who said "God's" law is universal law?
Bink< Sposashe: Pure logic, IMHO. If God is the Creator of the universe,
who *else's* law would be universal law?
order< Sposashe: I would say along with Bink that God's law is universal
law. *S
Sposashe< OK, then, which god?
EmeraldRose< Who is to say there is one God?
Bink< I would not exclude those who do not follow an organized religion
from categorizing themselves as 'religious'.
order< Religious to me is the Way, the effort in which I do that which
I feel will allow Spirit to more easily and freely manifest in and through
me. Religious is the 'effort' to align self to God.
Bink< order: Sounds like a good definition of 'worship' to me!
order< Bink: There is no effort, I believe, in Worship. Worship is the
soul's natural inclination when it is free.
Ben< To me, religious means devoted to something. It can mean adherence
to one of the religions; pious. It can also mean conscientious, earnest,
exact, careful, precise.
Sposashe< I addressed religion but will be glad to re-address it. I believe
religion is a set of boundaries/beliefs that are considered to be right.
It is then your responsibility to follow those beliefs, or love from God/creator/higher
power will be withheld and you will be punished.
EmeraldRose< "Religious" is a term for individuals that follow
ritualistic stylizations of spirituality. In essence, someone who feels
they need guidelines and someone to lead them (or for those high up in the
hierarchy, to lead) into what they feel will be some sort of salvation or
discovery.
Bink< EmeraldRose: That's a pretty limiting definition, to me. I consider
myself deeply religious, yet I certainly don't follow 'ritualistic stylizations'.
order< EmeraldRose: Surely those who fit your definition of religious
are merely those who are seeking the shared experience, belief about God
... not so much seeking for others to 'tell' them or 'lead' them as to learn
to come together and share what they agree upon about God.
FRAML< To me "religious" is defined by one's identification
with a group of like minded believers, whether it is Christianity, Hinduism,
Judaism, Buddhism Wicca, or whatever. One can be 'religious' by proclamation
that they are, and outward signs. It does not mean that they are or aren't
'spiritual'.
Ben< ALL: Do you apply the word "religious" to yourself?
order< Ben: I do. *S*
Ben< I apply the word "religious" to myself. I was born with
a thirst for a better God. I have devoted myself to seeking and then serving
the best I could find. However, I am not very pious.
Bink< Sposashe: IMHO, although one does get punished for 'sinning' --
refusing to obey or follow universal law -- God's love is *never* withheld.
God IS Love, and God is infinite -- in my understanding.
Ben< Bink, Sposashe: Let's not argue theologies this time.
Bink< Sorry, Ben -- no intent to argue, always just striving for clarification.
Will keep comments on topic.
LaDonna< I too consider myself to be religious by living in and of spirit.
FRAML< Ben: Yes I do. I live the manifestations of my belief. Thus display
in my actions and how I speak what I believe. Also I think that the concept
of 'religious' is defined by some people as a formal church structure, and
Christianity in specific.
EmeraldRose< order and Bink: I did not say these individuals were not
spiritually individual; I just feel that when one refers to themselves as
religious it sparks the image of one who feels the need for guidelines.
Almost all major "religions" have them (i.e., Muslims, Christians,
Judaism, etc. )
order< EmeraldRose: True, but many of these guidelines do work for many
individuals along the way. Each soul decides which best fits them for the
moment perhaps and join in. Everyone who is seeking to grow in Spirit has
some guidelines, or else they are just like a leaf blowing in the wind,
blown this way and that way and this way. To grow one needs roots, whether
one defines guidelines for oneself or agrees with guidelines already in
place. Growth is possible. (I think)
EmeraldRose< order: I did not mean to make my comments sound negative.
I was just trying to say that some people need that type of situation to
feel fully spiritual. That's my interpretation of "religious".
Sorry.
order< EmeraldRose: Sheesh, sis! So sorry. I didn't mean to make you
feel uncomfortable. I see it as I who should be apologizing, was so very
clumsy of me. (whacking self on noggin) ***Huggeees***
Ben< QUESTION 3: What is your understanding of "religious but not
spiritual"? Please describe what that means to you. Examples may help.
YOUR TURN
Sposashe< You can be religious and do what you are told/believe in order
to be doing what is right but it not come from your heart. It can be what
you feel you need to do; i.e., religion, but not necessarily what you feel;
i.e., your spirituality.
EmeraldRose< I agree with Sposashe.
FRAML< Ben: As I once was. I performed the public rituals, attended services,
prayed (but didn't really know if it did any good or if God was hearing
me). I wasn't wrapped in dogma or doctrine, but didn't know how to have
faith and belief in my heart and soul; I kept it only in my head.
Ben< Sposashe, FRAML: I like your descriptions better than mine, or in
addition to mine. Thanks.
bluestar< What a weird realization. I define religion as Bink -- a set
of rules to live by -- and in that way I'm religious. But when Ben asked
if I consider myself religious, my answer would be No. So I guess I still
"feel" religion is a term associated with FRAML's definition ...
an identification with an association of like-minded believers.
Ben< bluestar: Nice introspection. Thanks.
Lor< Ben: Aren't pious persons usually spiritual as well?
Ben< Lor: Pious people may be doing what they do for show, and actually
not be at all spiritual.
Bink< IMHO religious and spiritual are two sides of the same coin; therefore
one without the other I would see as a self/other deception.
order< Religious but not spiritual is to me what Job did before God opened
his eyes ... doing by the hearing of the ear instead of by the seeing of
the eye. But this DID lead Job to the experience of God called 'seeing of
the eye'.
Lor< I like order's description of the distinction between religious
and spiritual: doing by the hearing of the ear instead of by the seeing
of the eye. Although, I sense the spiritual goes even deeper toward knowing
somehow internally -- "in one's guts" -- so to speak.
Prophetess< Religious but lacking spiritual is that which is like pomp
and no circumstance; it is the materialistic side without the heart or soul.
Ben< In this comparison, I think of religious as devoted to the earthly
concerns of a religious organization or devotion to earthly causes (social,
economic, political). For example, I know Christians who aren't interested
in anything spiritual.
Bink< Ben: Would such not be 'Christians' in name only? Or at least,
'embryonic' Christians?
Ben< Bink: So others might say. But they consider themselves Christians.
FRAML< Ben and Bink: I think that is where one finds materialism and
humanism predominating. Those who see Christianity as a nice set of rules
to live by, but with no higher meaning.
Lor< I sort of think of religious people as searching for spiritual truths
that help sustain them, irrespective of whether they do it in association
with others or not.
Cassandra< Religious but not spiritual is thinking your own thoughts
are greater than listening to the Spirit's Voice within.
FRAML< Cassandra: I liked that "thinking your own thoughts greater
than ... "
Cassandra< Thank you, FRAML.
bluestar< Since I define Spiritual as a recognition and respect for all
the equality and sacredness of all creation, I guess I would find many religions
and their followers sadly lacking, as I find people tend to think in terms
of classes of people being better than other people (with religion often
being part of the criteria), and many people feel superior to most of God's
non-human creation.
order< I believe one is firstly 'religious' and then the awakening of
Spirituality breaks through ... dependent upon the intensity and the purity
of ones desire.
EmeraldRose< What is purity?
Ben< ALL: Have you tried to discuss a spiritual ("not of this world")
topic with religious people and been rebuffed for it?
FRAML< Yes, but usually don't mention it unless I'm quite sure the reaction
I'll get won't be totally negative. I'd be considered an "unrepentant
sinner" by some of my faith for some of what I believe. *S*
Ben< FRAML: Yep! Me, too, as you know. *G*
bluestar< Although I know a lot of people that are pretty involved with
their religion, I doubt that most of them would see any difference between
a talk about spiritual matters and religious matters. I think one of the
appealing things to many people about religion is that religion usually
has it all figured out for you. One's religion tells you what to believe
and how to act, and assures you that if you do what you are told, you will
achieve your spiritual goal. So in essence a spiritual discussion with someone
who has no reason to look behind the teaching -- and perhaps does not even
want to -- is a pretty one-sided discussion.
EmeraldRose< bluestar: Very good point.
FRAML< bluestar: I wonder if that is because in some denominations the
spiritual aspects have been overlaid or driven out by an absolute reliance
on dogma, or in saying that one's sacred literature is "literally true"
and there is nothing meant beyond what the word read. (but then this means
they are ignoring translation differences)
bluestar< FRAML: I think you are right, and I have hope this is changing.
The current Catholic Pope has come out with some very interesting interpretations
of dogma lately that make me think the Catholic Church just might become
a tool for spiritual enlightenment for a great many people in the 21st century.
Strides have also been made by Protestant churches as they include women
in their rituals, ordain female ministers or priests, and put more stress
on universal brotherhood and forgiveness. It also seems as though many of
the major religions are finding "common ground" and seeing how
many of their basic spiritual teachings are very similar, and that we indeed,
after all, are worshipping the same Divine Oneness.
FRAML< bluestar: About Divine oneness -- I don't believe that all roads
lead to either Rome or God. And one of the reasons is (another seminar topic)
one's definition of God and/or Creator.
bluestar< I would also add that although I think that I am not a proponent
of one religion for all, even if we all agree on the inner essence, religions
provide a map, a pathway, and a way to rejoice together in a spiritual way
with each other. I just want religions to stress the "spiritual"
and not, as Ben put it, be over-concerned with social and political concerns.
And, if religions wish to promote a particular code of morality, so be it.
But live and let live; to me, that's being spiritual.
FRAML< bluestar: Consider the flip side of your statement: "die
and let die, to me, that's being spiritual."
Lor< Ben: When you say you know Christians who aren't interested in anything
spiritual, I personally would question whether they are really Christians
that follow what Jesus taught. Many call themselves Christian even though
they have barely started down the path of learning what He taught. But that
is how we all learn and improve our perceptions of how our spiritual being
needs to become.
bluestar< Lor: I agree with you re: Christians, and it makes me quite
sad that many Christians sometimes miss the point regarding Christ's teachings,
but they nevertheless call themselves and are called by others Christians.
Although I consider myself Christian, most would not consider me Christian
because I don't believe that Jesus is/was any more the "only begotten
son of God" than you or I.
order< I'm thinking so-called Christians are not the only people that
miss the point. Many individuals miss the point regardless of where they
are standing.
FRAML< bluestar: That Jesus is the only begotten son, is important, IMHO.
Also the resurrection, for without that having happened, I don't think that
a bunch of Jewish fishermen would have stood up to the Sandhedrin, etc.
To me the spiritual aspect of Christianity is linked to this, otherwise
he was just another dead man with a nice set of ideas on how to live, but
not worth me dying for.
Ben< Okay, now to ask the question Lor posed earlier ...
Ben< QUESTION 4: What is your understanding of "spiritual but not
religious"? Please describe what that means to you. Examples may help.
YOUR TURN
FRAML< Those who look at meditation and spirit guides for inspiration,
but without a method of discerning whether they are helpful or harmful.
Also one who believes that 'spiritual' means being freed from any sense
of ethics (right/wrong, good/bad).
Ben< FRAML: Okay, thanks. Others?
order< It is easier just to love than to try to assess and/or understand
the state of another ... I think.
bluestar< I think unconditional love is spiritual (although to be quite
frank, I think anything but unconditional love is not love). I think accepting
a person, place or thing for what it is, treating it with respect and gratitude
for whatever part it plays in your life, is spiritual. I think forgiveness
is spiritual. I think the realization that we are all interconnected, all
part of something greater than ourselves as individuals, and that all individuals
are equally important in expressing whatever that something greater is,
is spiritual.
FRAML< bluestar: I recommend you read the last seminar topic on "super"
especially the third session in reference to caring. Just click on Ben's
name.
order< I'm wondering if 'spirituality' is a matter of choosing what we
wish to believe or is an attunement?
Ben< ALL: Do you consider yourself to be spiritual but not religious?
If so, what does that mean to you?
FRAML< I consider myself both. I haven't ever been spiritual only, but
I was religious only, and even unreligious only, once upon a time.
EmeraldRose< Now that I think about it, I would consider myself spiritual
but not religious. I follow a few common sense rules, but I do think ethics
are different from spirituality. I guess this means to me that I am free
to choose what I want to believe. Also, I have frequent moments where I
am just caught up in the now ... you know?
Ben< EmeraldRose: Okay, thanks. I believe that many people see spirituality
that way, as personal freedom.
FRAML< EmeraldRose: Common sense is often the source of ethics.
Ben< In this comparison, I think of spiritual as a "do-it-yourself"
project in which one doesn't adhere to any religion and may or may not be
devoted to anything. Psychic research and spiritualism come to mind as examples.
Lor< I sense we may be giving organized religion less credit than it
may deserve. I see it as an effort of the more experienced "elders"
attempting to teach and pass on to their young the benefits they have discovered.
It's problem comes from freezing onto some ideas before there has been sufficient
true knowledge of the basic truths involved in being the alive children
of God that we are.
Bink< In my understanding, we're all God's children whether we realize
it or accept it or not.
Ben< -- last post for tonight ...
Ben< ALL: Have you tried to discuss a religious (devotional) topic with
spiritual people and been rebuffed for it?
FRAML< Yes, here in SWC.
Ben< [After several minutes of waiting with no other replies to this
question] Well, this is a sensitive subject. Did anyone notice how many
people left the room without saying good-bye?
FRAML< Ben: About half a dozen. But then I got a couple of pm's good-bye.
From folks who weren't interrupting the seminar.
Ben< FRAML: Okay. pm good-byes are fine. I just wondered how many people
were turned off by that question -- and why.
FRAML< Ben: Perhaps my using the "J" word too much? Or because
a stereotype or two were given a shake.
order< FRAML: Your courage in this day and age, and in SWC for that matter,
in using the name of Jesus is commendable. (IMHO)
Ben< FRAML: Well, the attendance level sure answered my last post for
tonight.
Ben< /topic Discussion of spiritual and/or religious
oceanbliss< The great saints say there is nothing complex about religion
or spirituality. Religion is divine love, selfless service and character.
Dogma, ritual, religious division, fundamentalism, and occult powers are
pitiful fake imitations of religion.
order< Ben: Seems to me a discussion with so-called religious people
on any subject runs perfectly smoothly when talking about the Love of God,
when sharing in love and not self-righteousness. At least this has been
my experience.
Ben< order: Yes, rather a lot of people will stay to discuss the unconditional
love of God. Where so many take off is at the very idea of ethics, or any
mention of Jesus.
order< Ben: My last response was in answer to your question of talking
with so called religious people and being rebuffed. *VBS* But I have also
noticed that the subject of ethics, and in particular Jesus, can scare many
people away in SWC. I'm wondering what's so scary about Jesus? *G
Prophetess< Why would they leave over that, Ben? Yeshua is and will be
...
Ben< Prophetess: I agree, but many do not, and perhaps more don't want
to.
Prophetess< Ben: If any are educated in spiritual religion, they can
see Yeshua through the entire old testament. They have to have eyes that
see and ears that hear. Nice to meet you, by the by.
Ben< Prophetess: Yes, and his coming was foreseen by other people, including
at least some of the Magi. Nice to meet you.
Prophetess< Ben: The Magi were of course the forbears, but from Avram
who had the wisdom to listen to God and respond by leaving his home in UR,
to John the Baptist, Yeshua has been known throughout time and space. He
is there to love and counsel whenever we are hungry and thirsty ... and
I am always in a mind to eat and drink. *G*
FRAML< Prophetess: Remember to count your blessings before you sleep.
Prophetess< FRAML: I can't count my blessings; I have too many. I just
thank Him for all of them.
Lor< Ben and others: I sense you are over-reacting a bit to the rate
of drop-off at midnight. My post before last sort of hit at it: while being
free to believe what we want to, we may not believe too freely, if we are
to remain within God's guidelines as discerned over the ages by so many
that have gone before us, especially Jesus.
windchild< Lor: "May not believe too freely"? What does that
mean?
Lor< Being free to choose what we want to believe is one thing which
I believe is our God-given heritage; while believing and being what is acceptable
before God and our fellow beings is not so open. I perceive that is what
this life is much about: learning to be the kind of being that can zestfully
exist with mutual respect and harmony among God's other children.
bluestar< I think we are on the same harmonious wavelength on this, Lor.
:-)
bluestar< Ben: Could be just a coincidence, and as FRAML said, some people
said good-bye, others pm'd. And I think there were at least a few that are/were
uncomfortable at the idea of God or a Divine Unity ... and maybe they just
felt outnumbered.
FRAML< bluestar: To me it is that Jesus left his Father's side and came
here to earth to live and suffer as a man, in order to teach us and show
us the truth of his teachings through the resurrection. But then, I also
see us mortals as the solid form of the souls of fallen angels striving
to get home to Heaven. (Prodigal sons and daughters, perhaps.)
bluestar< I think Jesus was as close to God as any human being can be.
I think God spoke in and through Jesus. I believe Jesus is an elder brother,
a soul who has been here and done this, and therefore is in a position to
show humanity the way ... and that way is love. I believe in the resurrection,
but I also believe that we are tricked into believing that death is a given.
I am very uncomfortable philosophically with the idea of "a man"
being God or the "only son" of God, and therefore a God, or God
him/herself. I think God would see the danger in this, because once we accept
that a man can be God, how long before there is another, and another, so
that we or our descendants are forced or tricked into believing that "so
and so" is God? I am not trying to challenge your belief. I am totally
comfortable with your belief. I even accept that you may be right. I only
wish to clarify my own years of meditating on this subject.
FRAML< bluestar: Thank you for your explanation. The fear you express
of "another and another" is logical, and He said it would happen.
bluestar< FRAML: Also one more thing about Jesus. I have had this discussion
more than once before, but regarding the need for me to see Jesus' primary
importance stemming from that fact that he is God/Son of God, I find him
much more glorious because I see him as a man. To me, as a God, my own attitude
is "So what? He's God; he's supposed to be wise, humble, giving (in
other words ... spiritual)." But as a man ... well, I can identify
with that. I can see that he had to make choices; he had to choose heaven,
choose goodness, choose to live his life for others, and even die on the
cross just to get our attention, because he so loved us. And this is not
a new feeling for me. In catechism classes, I would always wonder why they
didn't stress more that Jesus was a man. I thought that this way people
would identify with him more, and be more likely to emulate him.
FRAML< bluestar: Have you ever studied what has been called "The
Arian Heresy?"
bluestar< FRAML: No, I have not heard of The Arian Heresy.
FRAML< bluestar: Look it up here on the web. It was the dominant way
of looking at the relationship of Jesus and God before 300 AD. Also, see
"State Church of the Roman Empire" on Ben's site.
bluestar< FRAML: Are you referring to "The Arian Heresy" as
being the dominant way of think about the Jesus/God relationship before
300 AD?
FRAML< bluestar: Yes, before it was 'heresy' it was actually the predominant
view among Christians. The change came after Christianity became the Official
Religion of the Roman Empire. It is interesting. And I've found a number
of people (whom I consider devout spiritual & religious Christians)
whose personal belief was more Arian than Trinitarian.
bluestar< FRAML: Wow, you sure seem to know a lot about Christianity
(historically and philosophically speaking). I have long hoped that Ben
would do a seminar on early Christianity.
FRAML< bluestar: A lot of study & long association with Ben has been
the source. And being a historian by vocation and avocation. *S*
Ben< bluestar: I have "First Century Christianity" on my list
of possible seminars, but I haven't seen or received many requests for it.
I think most Christians wouldn't like it, because they have inherited so
much doctrine and dogma that Jesus never heard of. And non-Christians probably
wouldn't like it, either, because the emphasis was on trying to live the
commandments that Jesus taught and demonstrated.
bluestar< Ben: Oh, well (sigh). However, I intend to read up on the articles
that have been suggested to me by others here.
Prophetess< Ben: As one with a masters in Historical Archaeology and
Theology, I would like to do one on that topic, if I may say so.
bluestar< FRAML: I think the beauty of loving Jesus and following his
teachings is that we can both work towards the same goal and achieve it,
even though we may differ regarding about who/what Jesus is/was.
windchild< Emerson said, "The only difference between Jesus and
man was that Jesus fully realized his relationship to God where as man has
not, as yet."
bluestar< windchild: Neat quote from Emerson. :-)
order< I think Jesus represents much more than just a man who realized
his oneness with God. I think Jesus represents some mystical experience,
some spiritual cosmic 'happening', with his entrance, and his perfect expression
of God in the earth, I think he brought into this realm of consciousness
a new vibration that we could all now ride upon. thus was he called the
door; not that he can do all for us, but that he did what he did and no
other could have done it.
bluestar< order: I agree with you, except in my point of view, a oneness
with God would make Jesus a mystical connection.
order< bluestar: I think as you. He was/is indeed a mystical connection.
bluestar< order: I think you are right about people finding it difficult
to discuss ethics. Right and wrong can seem to be mostly relative, whereas
most people agree on love as being a good thing.
order< bluestar: It's interesting how many can agree upon right and wrong
when they get older and begin to raise children of their own. It often can
also be seen in how they talk about others; even the so-called very liberal's
eyebrows can be raised when they see or hear of another doing classically
unethical things. LOL. Ethics may be more universal than it seems. *G*
oceanbliss< The saints say Jesus was god-realized. That means his true
self was everything in creation and beyond creation; Jesus was omnipresent,
omnipotent, omniscient, the great saints say.
order< oceanbliss: Then he would have had no need to pray to His Father?
oceanbliss< order: The saints say Jesus was praying to himself on the
cross. Remember Jesus said "the father and I are one." The saints
say Jesus spiritual evolution began as a messenger of god, then he evolved
further and became the son of god, and finally he merged into god and became
one with the father.
order< oceanbliss: There are two types of oneness ... a oneness that
is globular in form and content, and a Oneness which means perfect agreement,
called Love by most. I think it is the second type Jesus was referring to
... his soul in perfect agreement/love with GoD.
windchild< Jesus was an example of how we are to become.
order< windchild: It is said Jesus is The Way, The Door as well as our
example. Wondering what this means?
bluestar< windchild: That is how I think of Jesus, too. Although I am
not sure that all of us will play the same kind of role as Jesus, I think
all will play a role of the same importance. That all will eventually live
their lives totally immersed in service to the whole.
windchild< bluestar: Jesus said we would do everything he did and more.
order< windchild: Yes, Jesus said we would do everything he did and more
... because the Holy Spirit came with his 'death/resurrection'.
windchild< order: I'm not a follower of any church, but I think Jesus
is an example of our relationship to God, of what we are capable of, and
how we will eventually evolve into that same type of spiritual being. I
have to admit that I have never met anyone like Jesus.
order< windchild: I agree, we will surely all reach the same experience
wherein we can say "My God and I are One" if our hearts seek for
it. Whether we will all be exactly what the soul of Jesus is/was, I'm not
sure. I think God created individual uniqueness of soul for a reason. (I
am not a follower of any church, either. *S*)
windchild< order: Yes, each is individual for a reason, which brings
me to a question. It is said that God is perfect and knows the beginning
and the end. I have a real problem with this "sin" thing. How
can a perfect being create imperfection? That's like if I painted a picture
and then was not happy with it. Should I blame the painting?
order< windchild: God gave souls FREE WILL that we might Love, for love
must be freely chosen or it is not love. Within FREE WILL hides that which
you and others call sin ... we may also chose NOT to love.
FRAML< windchild: A more accurate translation for the world "perfect"
is "mature" -- thus 'be mature, as your Father is mature' implies
an entirely different standard, and one which is meetable, IMHO.
windchild< FRAML: That's the problem. So many people have been hurt because
they couldn't be "perfect". I was told once that I would go to
hell because I didn't eat meat. LOL Well, I've had a lot of burgers since
then.
order< FRAML: Perfect is perfect: without blemish, unspotted, pure, whole.
When Jesus said "Be ye perfect as your father in heaven is perfect"
he was speaking of love.
[Ben< order: Yes, Jesus was describing divine love. In that passage of
scripture (Matthew 5:43-48), the Greek word translated "perfect"
means "complete; not defective, not partial; full-grown, adult, mature."
The key thought is: "Your Father who is in heaven makes His sun rise
on evil men and good, and sends His rain on just men and unjust" --
which is a description of impartial good will that demands the translation
"Be impartial as your heavenly Father is impartial" and implies
"Impartial good will is characteristic of spiritual maturity."]
oceanbliss< order: The saints say Jesus was perfect love. He had perfected
his character over many lifetimes, and his incarnation was the fruit of
that perfection, so Jesus had a perfect spiritual character and divine love.
When one perfects oneself like this, the saints say you receive gods grace
and become one with god in consciousness. This means Jesus' consciousness
expanded from a limited singular mind and body to the omnipresent god body
which includes everything in creation from an ant to every human being,
plus everything beyond creation (this state is called kingdom of heaven
and is permanent bliss).
order< oceanbliss: I am familiar with what the so-called 'saints' say.
I just am not sure I wholly accept it all. *G* In the case of Jesus, others
say he was/is the Savior soul, incarnating and incarnating to show man/souls
the way; time after time, eon after eon, this soul incarnating and moving
us along the path ... leading us back to our original home as souls in God.
oceanbliss< order: The great saints say god is indivisibly one; whoever
attains god-realization merges into that oneness. So in truth the saints
teach us that Krishna, Buddha, Jesus, Mohammed are all the same one god
reincarnating again and again to show mankind how to attain god-realization.
order< oceanbliss: I do not believe in this 'merging' in the way that
the so-called great sages of the east present it. This kind of merging would
be death of soul. Think about it. *S*
oceanbliss< order: Do not go on what you believe, friend, go on what
is true. People believed the earth was flat once, but in truth it's round.
order< oceanbliss: Have you proven to yourself that the earth is NOT
flat? or are you taking others words for it? *Grins* I trust the spirit
within me and you. *S*
bluestar< order: lol :-) That is exactly the kind of statement/question
I use with people a lot.
order< bluestar: I make no such judgment one way or the other. The earth
is whatever it is; I merely walk upon it. Does it matter if it is flat or
round to spirit? LOL Assumptions are assumptions and 'knowing' is 'knowing'.
That which we experience from within is what we are, what we may say we
know ... and yet often this is only limited. *S*
FRAML< oceanbliss: Who are these Saints you are referring to? None of
the writings of Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, Paul, or the early church fathers
speak of "many reincarnations".
oceanbliss< FRAML: The saints are meher baba, sai baba, ammachi, yogananda,
yukteswar, ching hai, mother mera, plus many others. Some of these saints
are living, some have passed on.
FRAML< oceanbliss: Those are "saints" that fall outside of
my tradition. And from what I know of them, are not of it.
oceanbliss< FRAML: A true saint is not bound by any tradition or religion.
A true saint is perfect truth and divine love and service towards all humanity.
The saints I have listed are of such caliber, and their writings help mankind
understand the confusing mass and often misinterpretation of Christian scripture.
FRAML< oceanbliss: Then we must leave it that we disagree in our views
and definitions of "saints".
oceanbliss< FRAML: If a saint is not the embodiment of love, service,
and compassion, what good is he? What else can a true saint be, but these
things?
bluestar< oceanbliss: I agree. I wish that more organized religions would
teach people how to personalize their relationship to God, and thus experience
God in whatever experience leads one to God.
oceanbliss< bluestar: I wish all religions would unite under the one
religion of love, service and character. The saints say religion is three
quarters character, and I believe it. *s*
oceanbliss< order: It is said the highest truth is personal experience.
The only way to prove or disprove the great teachings of the saints is to
practice them and experience personally the results. I have practiced many
of their teachings and have experienced the expected results that they claim,
but of course I have not practiced all their teachings; that will come with
time. But so far I am convinced that what they teach is absolute perfect
truth, and I feel very happy being a messenger of that truth.
order< oceanbliss: The heart that is set on attuning itself to God will
be attuned if it's desire is pure. The means or the vehicle means little.
Surely along the way you have also discovered this. Many, studying and applying
various principles, will be as able as you to say "I have grown"
but what gives the growth? and which so-called 'truth' leads to the apex
of the spiritual pyramid for souls in the earth who aspire to be one with
God? ... that is the final test. (IMHO)
oceanbliss< order: My friend, I agree the saints prescribe many different
paths to travel to the summit on the mountain of god-realization, but they
say the high roads to the goal are: selfless service to humanity, divine
love, character, meditation, and complete obedience and surrender to the
will of god or a god-man (god in flesh like Jesus or Buddha was).
order< oceanbliss Yes, they all generally agree on these guidelines.
*VBS* I've always wondered though, why Buddha did not ask a higher question.
He never asked about God, only how to alleviate man's pain and suffering
in the earth, and this is the answer he received (Nirvana, the middle path)
-- walk with no desires -- (kind of a numbness to life?) or so it is described.
FRAML< order: And as one has no desires, one slowly erases passion and
compassion. And thus one's soul dies.
order< FRAML: It seems to me -- and no one has been able to make me see
otherwise -- that this eastern philosophy does indeed seem to point one
in the direction of apathy and soul death. I can't think what else we would
call it when our soul individualities are sucked back into God the moment
we become 'one' with Him, instead of our soul individualities joining in
perfect harmony and Love with God and then experiencing this Bliss still
having perfect individuality of soul and awareness of soul to enjoy the
Love/Bliss.
windchild< FRAML: So, "There is none mature, no not one, but our
Father in heaven"? I'm not sure anyone really knows anything, and probably
won't until we get to where we are going. I have a problem with the bible
because it was written and translated by man. You lose a lot in translations.
I can relate to some of the things in the new testament, but the old testament's
God is way too human. He is jealous, vengeful, and pissed off most of the
time. That sounds just like mankind.
Prophetess< LOL Tell me, windchild, I think of God as my Father and he
corrects me continuously. I relate to Him as divinity and with emotion.
I am glad to see he has emotion also.
windchild< Maybe we created God in our image.
FRAML< windchild: I was using the word "mature" for that specific
piece of scripture. I did not say it would be translated as "mature"
rather than "perfect" in any or every other place. There are four
different words in Greek which are all translated as "love" in
the new testament, yet each one has a different connotation and even meaning.
I am remembering a person who committed suicide because he 'couldn't be
as perfect or flawless' as God. Perhaps the accurate translation of "mature"
in that specific place would have given him hope and not despair.
windchild< To quote Bob Dylan, "I have given up all attempts of
perfection."
order< windchild: Surely you can be the perfect loving windchild? *S
windchild< I do what I can, order. *S*
order< windchild: *Smiles* I know you do. **Hugs**
bluestar< FRAML: Four different words all translated as love ... perhaps
we need a new translation?
Prophetess< FRAML: There are actually about 13 different meanings in
sentence structure for the word love, and in all the original scripts not
once is that word used in the Torah (first five books of the Scriptures).
Prophetess< windchild: The Scholkem Bible just released is closest to
word-for-word translation. Yes, I am fluent in Hebrew and Arabic, and I
like it well. It also has in Genesis, not the Ten Commandments, but the
correct Ten Words.
dCrone< Prophetess: Is that the translation in which the translator worked
to put the terms/phrases back into their original contexts? I think I have
heard about it.
Prophetess< dCrone: Yes, it goes to original context as far as can be.
Remember, there were only about 1500 original words, so the way they were
put together in different structures is how they were interpreted, along
with inflection in sound, which is lost. The translation was done by several
people debating, discussing and working together for years in an ecumenical
setting. It is much appreciated by all mainstream religion but not out in
mass publication yet. It might shock some to come out of their cubbys and
look at the words on a basis more like the original.
dCrone< Prophetess: What you describe is much what I recall. Thanks *S*
windchild< Prophetess: What are the correct Ten Words? I have nothing
against the Ten Commandments; they are good rules to live by.
FRAML< order: I look at the 'hellfire and brimstone, sin and damnation'
types and I'm reminded that they are following the old testament message
of John the Baptist, and not the new gospel of Jesus of Nazareth. *S*
order< FRAML: Yes, but even Jesus said (or so it is written): "Fear
not he that can destroy the body; fear he who can destroy the body and soul
in hell". Did I get this verse right? *Smile*
Ben< order: In that passage, the Greek text does not say "he"
-- it says "Do not fear the killing ... fear the destroying ... "
order< Ben: Will look into this ... interesting passage, though. Thanks!
*S
order< FRAML: And what of the story of Lazarus in hell, thirsting and
thirsting? This a story told by Jesus.
FRAML< I'm not up to discussing what each word means in each part of
the New Testament at this time of the morning. Also, I'm not a "Literalist"
when it comes to studying the Bible. Thanks to a Protestant/Catholic background.
Prophetess< FRAML: I wasn't implying that. I am not a literalist, either
... and I am a Catholic/Jew raised and born. What I am saying is there are
many working hard and continuously to correct error that could not be helped
at the time (era). I say all-in-all the scriptures suffered little. It is
a quest to learning, and soul searching, that brings each to his own eventual
epiphany. God Bless.
FRAML< Prophetess: I was just sharing the source of my personal "heresy."
*G*
Ben< Prophetess: Were you born Jewish and raised Catholic? Or the other
way around?
Prophetess< Ben: Neither. I was born and raised in Israel, Judean, and
converted to Catholicism. My degrees are from U of Jerusalem, and Northwestern.
I am a field archaeologist.
Ben< Prophetess: I think, if I could have lived parallel lives, I might
have joined your profession. *S*
Prophetess< Ben: It is more than satisfying and has lots of action especially
when running from big guys with guns. LOL I have a hole in my back. But
I would not trade my upbringing, my education, my love of God and life,
for anything in the world. Except of course if Yeshua said change, poof,
I would, that fast. *G*
windchild< Ben: Maybe you do live a parallel life, but aren't aware of
it.
Ben< windchild: Nope, not parallel lives. I looked. But I do live on
more than one level. *S*
Prophetess< Ben: Where did you look? ROFL
Ben< Prophetess: I looked in soul-awareness and soul-memory. Past lives,
yes; parallel lives, no.
windchild< I think my parallel lives are having a far better time than
I am. LOL
Prophetess< windchild: Gotta love you *VBS*
windchild< Thank you, Prophetess. *S*
Prophetess< Ben: What is your background, if I may ask?
Ben< Prophetess: By profession, I'm a retired Air Force officer. The
last two-thirds of my career was in research, including a basic research
"think tank" in New Mexico. A fair sampling of my spiritual life
is on my website.
Prophetess< I would say OH-RAH but I believe that is Marines ... but
God Bless you and all you have achieved.
Ben< Prophetess: I don't recognize OH-RAH but I do appreciate the Marine
motto: Semper fidelis!
Prophetess< Ben: I appreciate any who give their lives to freedom, and
the right to have this. I shall say a prayer for your passion to work so
hard for others rights. It is courageous and commendable.
Ben< Prophetess: Thank you. I started my Air Force career in Strategic
Air Command, whose motto was *pax opus nabiscum* (peace is our profession).
Prophetess< Ben: I love Latin -- it is so emphatic. I also speak French,
and three Cuneiform Egyptian scripts, and Greek. Be good, or be good at
it. If not, apologize and get on with it. *G*
order< Ben: Today, the emphasis is much more on Paul than Jesus's teachings.
Paul was a great soul, but was no Jesus. He shared as he understood, but
I think his sight was somewhat limited in expression at times. Many so called
Christ-ians today are really Paul-ines?
Ben< order: This message was given to a minister I know: "Don't
be too hard on my servant, Paul. For all his human fallibility, he did right
well with his life."
order< Ben: That was my point. His soul was very open and his experience
of God real. I'm only saying some of his teachings actually tended to conflict
with Jesus' ... such as the building of a 'church'. Jesus said we would
worship God in spirit and in Truth, and not need to 'go to the temple' anymore.
[Ben< order: There are many Christian teachings that conflict with the
teachings of Jesus, but most of them came later than Paul. They were introduced
over time, century after century, and teachings that conflict with the teachings
of Jesus are still being introduced today -- the "inerrancy" of
the Bible is one example.]
Ben< By the way, a lot of people don't like Jesus because they don't
like the very first reported words of his public ministry: "Repent,
for the Kingdom of God has drawn near." And as he explained it later:
"This world hates me because I say of it that it's deeds are evil."
There are many people who simply do not want to hear either of those statements.
dCrone< Since I missed the seminar, I will mull over the things I do
not want to hear, and then I will work to see if they are the same as others
do not want to hear.
oceanbliss< order: The saints say Buddha, Christ, Krishna, and all the
other god-realized beings taught the same truth, but they emphasized some
points more than others in their incarnation, because humanity at that time
was lacking in that quality more so, but every incarnation of god teaches
the exact same truth; for example, the saints say Buddha called the state
beyond creation nirvana; Krishna called it atma or brahma; Jesus called
it kingdom of god; Mohammed called it allha.
order< oceanbliss: The saints say this, but they change the experience
of Jesus. They change the meaning of his words. They change who and what
the writings say Jesus was/is. If they left Jesus as he is portrayed in
gospels, they would throw him out. LOL Each has something to offer, but
all are really not saying the same thing ... I don't think. *s
FRAML< order: Bingo!!!
oceanbliss< order: The goal of god-realization, the saints say, is to
become the perfect embodiment of divine love. It's not the death of soul;
it's the birth of soul; its the birth of divine love. Divine love is the
most blissful experience in existence, the saints teach, plus the goal is
to expand your consciousness to become everything in creation and beyond
creation (this beyond creation state is permanent bliss and peace and love,
the saints teach).
order< oceanbliss: Loss of individual awareness as souls is death; it
can be called nothing else ... but is this the whole teaching of the east??
oceanbliss< order: If you get a hundred people to listen to a lecture,
and then after the lecture ask those hundred people to repeat what was said
in the lecture, you would get a hundred different answers. Now think about
this: Jesus gave a lecture 2000 years ago, and that lecture has been repeated
over 2000 years. Now do you think it's going to be the exact same lecture
that Christ originally gave?
order< oceanbliss: I don't think you would get a hundred different answers.
Actually I think many would be able to answer in agreement as to what they
heard.
oceanbliss< order: Have you ever played Chinese whispers? It's a simple
game; try it some time, it will prove how easy words get changed from their
original state.
Prophetess< oceanbliss: But they did pretty good as far as that. The
Gospels reflect a personal experience, with steadfastness to each other.
It is quite amazing, and graceful.
order< oceanbliss: The message is still alive. If it were not, one could
question, but the message is still spiritually quickening, so one may trust
in it's validity. The test is not time, but "Does it help or serve
to transform lives" ... and yes, this message still does.
oceanbliss< order: If you expand your consciousness to include everything,
then you still retain individual awareness, don't you? Your individuality
is everything.
order< oceanbliss: Read the eastern texts ... ego/individuality of soul
is lost in the merging with God. If I am not ... and if my soul is consumed
by the God, I am not ... I have no awareness; I do not technically exist;
I am simply re-absorbed into the Great Being, just as before God breathed
me out.
dCrone< Also, I will ponder expansion and dissolution. This will be a
difficult task, for I am a pooh-bear with a propensity to wonder if words
are insufficient ... and, admittedly, I resist contemplation of linear levels
~ though I do feel there are 'spheres' and often muse that they are mobile.
*S*
oceanbliss< order: My friend, the eastern texts clearly state you exist
in god-realization. They state you exist either in the state beyond creation
(in permanent bliss) or the state as everything in creation and beyond creation.
The eastern texts clearly say your soul is immortal and will eternally exist,
my friend.
order< oceanbliss: We shall have to peruse these texts together sometime,
perhaps. I have read them, and they clearly point to the dissolving of self,
of individuality. My point is, how is the individual soul to be aware of
bliss if it loses it's ability to be individual? The kind of oneness taught
by the east is one being, one consciousness, dissolution of souls as individual
participants. I see Love with this Being as perfectly harmonious loving
souls in perfect relationship with God.
oceanbliss< order: My friend, every eastern text and writing I have read
clearly states the soul is immortal and the god-realized exist and are immortal.
It's just like in our body: we have millions of cells that make up the whole,
but even though we have millions of cells in our body, we still experience
individuality as a whole. Likewise the god-realized body consists of all
the beings in creation (cells) even though their body is every atom in creation,
they still experience individuality.
dCrone< I will also watch the rerun of Joseph Campbell and Bill Moyers
in which Campbell quotes another, something to the effect that "In
the east, the fruit and the flower are on the vine at the same time"
~ the experience of the west is not the same.
[The following was apparently in reply to a private message.]
order< windchild: Please understand, I am not 'picking on' the eastern
thought; I am simply trying to see it as it is written ... comparing it
to that which is written in bible or perhaps what is called western thought
today. *S* They do differ on this point of individuality of soul upon becoming
one with God.
windchild< order: I don't exactly see the point of much eastern thought,
either. If you lose even the desire to desire, then what is the point of
even living? I think life was meant to be experienced to the fullest. And
to me that starts with being overwhelmed with love, which to me means what
the bible said: "Seek ye first the kingdom of heaven, and all else
will be added."
order< windchild: Yes, I think we need only spiritualize our desires.
Desire is a mighty force that may compel us to reach for God. Earnest spiritual
desire is an intense collection of thoughts that calls in such a way that
the Eternal one is Drawn to answer ... a mystic experience/connection, I
think. *S*
windchild< I agree, order. Interesting way to put it all together.
order< windchild: If this was what they were saying, truly, I would have
embraced their writings, but this is simply not what I have read of them.
No matter; it is our hearts that matter, and our hearts are set on God.
It is only interesting and fun to discuss differing philosophies. Have really
enjoyed our discussion! Thanks and goodnight! It is 2 a.m. here and I am
drooping. LOL
Ben< Well, my alarm clock just buzzed, so it's time for me to go to bed.
Peace and blessings to each of you. *poof*
20. Spirituality and/or religion
Session 2 -- Spirituality *versus* religion
Sat 09 Oct 1999
Ben< This seminar is exploring two subjects -- spirituality and religion
-- to see where they overlap and where they don't. Tonight we will look
at some of the differences between spirituality and religion. Ready? Here
we go.
Ben< QUESTION 1: In your opinion, what does every religion you know about
include that spirituality doesn't necessarily include? YOUR TURN
Yopo< Usually some sort of story. Detailing specific events concerning
creation. Uh, and usually something about how god or gods relate to mankind.
dCrone< The first thing that comes to mind is preachers ... which, as
I think about it, equals a structure that I think is not so evident in much
spirituality ~ still pondering, though.
Ben< Yopo, dCrone: Okay. Thanks. Others?
FRAML< Sometimes an accompanying history of doctrine and dogma. Although
some of the 'spirituality' paths I've seen are rapidly building their own
doctrine and dogmas.
dCrone< That is true, FRAML. They are rapidly building.
LadyV< I thought, request for money.
Yopo< LadyV: *hehe* Yep. Begging bowls or collection plates.
Ben< LadyV: Good point. Spirituality doesn't necessarily involve money.
Religion usually does (but not always).
Areesha< Religion always involves money, and preachers who think they
are preachers.
LadyV< Actually, the leader must eat. I prefer to know where its going,
though.
Wayseer< There is nothing religion includes that can't be found with
spirituality.
Ben< Wayseer: Perhaps, but how about authority? It seems to me that every
religion includes or points to some kind of authority, but spirituality
doesn't necessarily.
Yopo< Yes. Authority and leaders with religion, sometimes more than the
teachers you find with spirituality.
Wayseer< Spirituality usually points out the fact that there is always
something greater than yourself.
dCrone< I think, too, there is a difference in the type of ritual involved.
Some spirituality groups encourage more dramatic rituals ... except for
the TV versions of religion that are so dramatic I don't know that I would
use the world ritual to describe them.
LadyV< Most of us choose by our belief system the "authority"
we want to listen to. Generally, that of our parents, or what makes sense
to us. I have a bit of a problem with "authority" ... respect,
I can handle.
FRAML< I've seen some speak of eastern religions as spirituality. They
mention they are studying under a guru, who studied under, etc. That is
an authoritarian structure being set up, although they don't recognize it
or admit it.
LadyV< I had not thought of gurus in that sense, FRAML. Good point.
Ben< FRAML: Good point. Devotion to a guru can be as binding as devotion
to a deity or an organization.
Blinder< By accepting any authority between ourselves and the Divine,
are we not abdicating responsibility for maintaining our own relationship
with God?
Ben< Blinder: Many people say so, and I agree, but many do not.
Bee49< I feel religion is more structured.
Ben< ALL: How about lines of demarcation concerning who or what is and
isn't included in the religion?
FRAML< Ben: Yes, one usually has a set of ethics and morality in religions.
Some "spiritualities" seem to be absent of those.
Yopo< Ben: Yes. Religion seems more inclined to set boundaries, to define
what ideas are inside and outside of them.
LadyV< Demarcation is a powerful word. Do not hear Priests or Ministers
use that too often.
Ben < Okay, thank you all. Next question ...
Ben< QUESTION 2: In the last 30 years or so, spirituality seems to have
become an alternative to religion. Do you agree? If so, why do you think
this happened? If not, why not? YOUR TURN
Areesha< People are always searching until they find a "thing"
they can relate to.
Ben< Areesha: Yes, good point. And searching has been more popular (and
more permitted) in the last 30 years.
Blinder< Ben: I think it always was. It is only within the last 30 years
or so that spirituality has become a "socially acceptable" alternative
to religion.
Bee49< I can only speak for myself. Yes, I agree. Structured religion
could not answer all my questions.
Ben< Bee49: Yes, many feel that way. (I intend this to be a forum in
which everyone can speak for themselves and say what they personally think,
believe, feel.)
Bee49< Thanks, Ben.
Areesha< Spirituality gives more freedom of choice than religion.
Yopo< In my opinion, people hunger for direct experience of the spiritual
journey. Religion is too often like staying at home, reading travel guides.
dCrone< Would the need for alternatives exist if institutionalized religion
had served? Is it just society that has changed, or has awareness increased,
or have folks in droves just decided to go it alone? I think there are needs
that the formal religions have not met well.
Ben< dCrone: Good point.
FRAML< As a part of the "rebellion" of the 50's and 60's many
folks decided they didn't want to be forced to go to church, or saw no need
to believe in God. However, they knew they wanted something to believe in,
outside of themselves, so they turned to eastern mysticism, the occult,
and updated versions of 19th Century spiritualism.
Areesha< Also, in my opinion, spirituality has also given way to unjust
thinking on some issues and debates.
dCrone< There is also the impact of science to consider.
Blinder< But the science versus religion debate can be a never-ending,
unfruitful miasma. In a certain context, they need not be the antithesis
of each other.
FRAML< And then there are those men who were turned off by a "Jesus
meek and mild" who was a pansy as portrayed in sermons. And they went
looking for something more robust.
bluestar< Also, I think a lot of people got out of touch with the religion
they grew up with ... didn't relate well to it, or perhaps were seduced
by the intellectual arguments against religion or God ... but then found
they missed something spiritual in their life. The opportunities for people
to mix with other cultures (and their beliefs) increased, and people found
a way to fill the void in their lives, even if it meant making up their
own personalized religion.
LadyV< I am wondering if our social order or social structure in regards
to Religion ... let's say Church ... has caused many people now to wander
without roots, like May-Pole dancers, not really fitting anywhere. It would
seem to me that it would take awhile for the change now occurring "seeking
spirituality" to level out to the point that most would feel comfortable
with the individual "spirituality".
Ben< ALL: Okay! You guys are WORKING this question. Please continue while
I go get my two cents' worth.
Yopo< The religions I have had personal contact with also had no place
for "spiritual" experiences I've had, or for frameworks of belief
that DO seem to make sense of such experiences. So, one is sometimes forced
to deny what one sees and feels, or to abandon the restrictive belief system.
LadyV< Yopo: I would echo that myself ... and some of us start getting
a little restless in the pew.
Wayseer< I always had problems sitting still. *S*
Ben< I think spirituality has become an alternative to religion, because
many people are repelled by dogmatism or condemnation, many are not satisfied
with a limited world-view, and many have found no one religion that speaks
to their spirituality. Some, of course, are simply rebelling against all
forms of religious authority.
Blinder< But, Ben, hasn't that rebellion been around for a very long
time, even when people were taking their very lives in their hands by such
refusal to accept church doctrine ?
Ben< Blinder: Yes, that rebellion has been around for a long time, but
it wasn't nearly as socially acceptable has it has been recently.
Blinder< Exactly, but the very social acceptability of that rebellion
now threatens the stability of "the Church". No longer are people
willing to accept as gospel the proclamations of religion. I see this as
both good and bad, as those who reject the moral code of the Church are
now finding they must look within themselves for the defining concepts of
their lives. Such a search can be very good, but if it doesn't take place
...
LadyV< Then our social order requires a change to find at the educational
level a better awareness of spirituality and how to apply it within the
structure of Church (for want of a better word ... whatever). It has to
start with those that produce the leaders into the society.
Ben< ALL: I'm enjoying your inputs. Thanks, and please continue.
FRAML< The mainline Protestant religions got very stuffy and denied spiritual
experience. The Roman Catholics had a bit of an opening, especially after
Thomas Merton became influential. The Charismatic (Pentecostal) types had
some aspects of spirituality, but usually not controlled, and other aspects
of spirituality were heavily censored because of Deuteronomy 18.
Levita< In my experience, both religion and spirituality cease to serve
once they become dogmatized and set in their ways with no room to say we
have more information and need to revise our past stance, no room for error.
Once any system has a following and a leader, no matter whether it is spirituality
or religion, they tend to become more concerned with the group, as in what
it means to be Catholic or Hindu, etc., versus searching for truth.
Ben< QUESTION 3: Do you personally like spirituality and dislike religion,
as many say they do? If so, why? If not, why not? YOUR TURN
Bee49< I like spirituality but do not dislike religion. There is a place
for religion, and had it not been for a "religious" background,
I would not have searched for what I now have.
RunningRiver< The center of my being is my soul, a spiritual soul. I
have a hard time with Religion. But it gives structure. Sometimes I miss
the easy answers that Religions give. Spirituality in some sense is very
lonely in your personal beliefs. There are some similarities, but basically
you are on your own (but the guides and angels are a definite plus).
Ben< RunningRiver: Well said.
RunningRiver< Hi Ben, and Thank you. S*
FRAML< I'm into the spiritual aspects of Christianity (my faith/religion).
I see them as complementary rather than contradictory. The influence of
'science' and 'reason' has hindered many by causing them to deny spiritual
experiences.
Yopo< Hmm. *S* Not wanting to hurt feelings here. Uh, I personally have
no use for organized religions that I have so far come in contact with.
All have been too set on defining who and what is acceptable and unacceptable,
often with too much emphasis on the latter. Guess I consider spirituality
a purer and more direct quest for God.
Ben< FRAML, Yopo: Thank you.
RunningRiver< Yopo: I agree ... but for some that is what they want,
and is it not about the spiritual path we have chosen? what makes us happy?
Who am I, though they prosecute me for my beliefs, to condemn them for the
path of structured religion? Church in some ways is a manifestation of fear
and such, but I will tell you, I went to a evangelical church last Sunday
just for laughs, and I saw angels there, and I saw something waving through
the crowd as he touched them and they fell weeping. I felt the presence
of God there. It's amazing to me, even though many are misguide in the truth,
and yes, fear is taught too much. God showed his love there and the healing
... babble, babble ...
LadyV< RunningRiver: You saw the gift of Grace. I am glad for you.
RunningRiver< Thank you, LadyV. S*
Yopo< RunningRiver: *S* I'm not denying organized religion can be a true
path for some.
RunningRiver< Yopo: S* In respect to unity, I guess in a sense it is.
S*
FRAML< The questions about religion that ought to have been answered
"I don't know" but doctrine says "This is it" are a
point where spiritual growth is often quashed.
RunningRiver< Religion kinda takes away your choices; it makes everything
so clear-cut. It takes away that freedom of choice and freedom of path that
I have fought so long to find. I believe some people really need that structure
... not right or wrong, just another path. Amazing and beautiful the diversity
that God has created ... something for everyone ... whatever fits the path
and needs that a person needs.
LadyV< I would personally want to enter the Church building of my choice
and have the Minister/Priest/Rabbi/whatever say to me "All are welcome
here" and mean "as we are" not as the social order expects.
Ben< I like my own spirituality better than any religion, because it
makes more sense to me. However, it could and probably should be called
a personal religion, because it includes devotion to Deity, self-discipline,
commitment, obedience, and adherence to principles of morality and ethics.
Blinder< Ah, but where do those concepts of morality and ethics come
from, Ben ?
Ben< Blinder: Good point. I didn't invent them. I know where they came
from. *smile*
Blinder< My point exactly. *s*
FRAML< Ben: I understand, but from what I've heard some say, they see
spirituality as divorced from ethics, morals, and obedience. That it is
becoming "god".
Ben< FRAML: Yes, spirituality doesn't necessarily include rules of morality,
ethics, obedience, etc.
Yopo< FRAML: Yep. I've seen and worried about that, too. And I must confess,
the ethics I have were first transmitted in a more or less religious context.
They have changed and evolved from there, but that's what laid the foundation.
Levita< I for my part have no interest in being part of a large organization.
Be it spiritual or religious, there tends to be too much emphasis put on
the structure vs what the structure was created for in the first place.
Therefore, if there is something of value that resonates for me, I utilize
it within my framework of experience, and leave what for me I know doesn't
work, and leave the rest for future reference. All large groups and even
small ones also seem to me to get too wrapped up in giving power to one
individual: the guru, the teacher, the priest.
LadyV< I guess what I am saying is, if I entered the Church and said
"Father, your Uncle Henry is tapping you on your shoulder; best to
listen" ... and not have him drop his dentures ... that would be the
Church for me.
Yopo< LadyV: *LOL*
Ben< LadyV: Hah! Excellent! I'll have to try that.
RunningRiver< LadyV: LOL That would be nice. LOL I guess there's a tactful
way of doing that. LOL
greyman< Ben: Spirituality is experiential and to some degree testable,
with some tangible feedback; religion is an attempt to approximate God through
ritual. Religion requires significant faith, whereas Spirituality can be
subject to testing with repeatable results.
[Ben< greyman: Good point. Many of the tenets of many religions are not
testable.]
bluestar< I think religions help parents engender spiritual ideals in
their children, and I think they are also very useful in providing a space
where like-minded people can gather and share and manifest their spiritual
beliefs together.
RunningRiver< bluestar: Yeah ... True. But I have been different since
I was too young to supposedly understand it. I was telling nuns in the third
grade what it was all about, and that they were rationalizing and too controlling
and God wasn't that mean. LOL My mother did support me in my differentness.
*S*
SoulTraveler< I don't necessarily see a difference between a religion
being separate from spirituality. A religion can, but doesn't always, provide
a measure of spirituality. Some could say that soul-travel is spirituality,
yet it conforms to no tenets of a religion.
FRAML< I wonder if some have gotten a fear of the organization to such
an extent that they are thus unwilling to be a part of an organization to
do what good they can within it -- to look quietly for like-minded people
within that "structure". Perhaps that takes more courage and faith
than just being alone in one's practice of spirituality?
Blinder< Good point, FRAML. You said a mouthful. *s*
LadyV< FRAML: I agree with you. That is what most of us would do. We
know the cost of standing out. Few are brave enough to do that. God is not
blind. It is for now a more balanced and rational way to promote social
change. Easy does it. To discard religion would be unwise, as that is structure.
RunningRiver< FRAML: Yes. That is what I have been doing in church lately.
*S* You know, it's really not that much different if you take away the shades
of grey. *S*
Tracey< Ben: As in your earlier post, I seem to have developed my own
religion, as I think we all do to some extent. In growing up in the Methodist
Church, as a child of 6, I did not take into my heart the threats from God.
It has never fit in my heart, so my ideals also encompass many paths.
Ben< FRAML, Tracey: Hang onto those thoughts. The next (and final) session
of this seminar will be on spirituality *and* (or within) religion.
Ben< last question for tonight ...
Ben< QUESTION 4: I have read that New Age spirituality is in the process
of becoming a religion. Do you agree? If so, why? If not, why not? YOUR
TURN
Yopo< Strongly agree. I've been watching the emergence of New Age dogma
for a few years now. There are certain "tenets of the faith"...
one of which FRAML alluded to in an earlier post. I also am coming to the
opinion that critical thinking is NOT given much importance in New Age circles.
Find that a bit disturbing.
Blinder< If "New Age Spirituality" is the process of looking
inwardly for your own connection with the Divine (as, I might add, almost
every great spiritual leader has advocated), then I'd have to say No, for
the concept violates the fundamental concept on which it was created.
Levita< Don't really know if it is possible for New Age to become a religion
or not, as it is such a hodge-podge of many varying theories and beliefs.
Usually religions have a defining set of guidelines as to what the belief
is, whereas New Age is a searching process.
RunningRiver< The Gift of Prophesy, discerning spirits, exorcism, healing
... there is a line of similarity ... minus the fear condemnation, and hell.
*S*
SoulTraveler< New Age often incorporates OBE's and NDE's, etc., as a
form of spirituality; yet OBE's occur within the Christian Church and Eastern
Religions as well.
Ben< SoulTraveler: Yes. Oftentimes, if one can get past the differences
in vocabulary (semantics), New Age and Old Time Religion are saying much
the same thing.
RunningRiver< SoulTraveler and Ben: Definitely. Why give energy to the
negativity of the CHURCH? Envision the positive; maybe changes will take
place, understanding. Who knows? The possibilities are unlimited.
SoulTraveler< Ben: I agree. Old Age Spirituality and New Age spirituality
are more alike than different, it seems to me. I suppose you could take
one facet of spirituality and create a religion around it. Similar to the
'Cargo Cults' of the South Pacific during WWII.
astarian< Throughout history, religions had more to do with wars.
Tracey< I am not sure that the New Age can be one religion. Many ideals
and ideas are accepted; so, how would one make rules? And I hope that rules
do not enter into it as much as acceptance for what is in the heart.
FRAML< Ben: I see it becoming a loosely structured religion. There are
various writers, channelers, mystics, who are constantly quoted as "the
source". And if one asks questions about it, one often gets an answer
that is as dogmatic as anything from some Christians. Also, I wonder if
the view that "Christians can't be spiritual" is becoming doctrine
and dogma for non-Christian spiritualists.
bluestar< I think there are too many different beliefs that come under
the heading of New Age Spirituality. Perhaps it will engender (as it has
churches) some new religions, but the only single idea I could see coming
out it is the idea that people can be their own priest/minister, and that
they do not need a middle man to be in communion with God.
Blinder< Agreed, Bluestar.
FRAML< bluestar: It is interesting that Martin Luther, John Wesley, and
Barton Stone were all convinced that one could have a personal relationship
with Jesus and God ... that one didn't need a priest as an intermediary.
bluestar< FRAML: Interesting, indeed. :-) Perhaps, then, many or most
New-Agers are children raised in Protestant religions, taking their religious
reform movements to the next level.
order< bluestar: That presupposes that those who stay in religious groups
are less 'advanced' than those who leave? *S
bluestar< order: I don't understand what you mean. I don't think people
who leave their religion are necessarily more advanced than people who stay
in their religion or people who try to reform/transform their religion.
I left the religion I was raised in a long time ago for several different
reasons, and I have never joined another; but as I have gotten older I have
learned to appreciate the better side of religions more than I had for a
long time.
order< bluestar: Dittos. It seems we have taken almost an exact same
path, and learned to this point the same appreciation. *VBS
RunningRiver< God = Infinity = multifaceted = multipaths = multibeliefs
= diversity.
smurf< Why the question, Ben? Why is it that one who is spiritual does
not want to be seen as religious?
Ben< smurf: Good question. I think many would answer it in different
ways, but perhaps most would not want to associate themselves with the religions
around them.
smurf< Why does it matter?
Ben< It seems to me that lines are being more sharply drawn between what
is and isn't New Age, and folks on both sides of those lines are becoming
more dogmatic.
smurf< Ben: I respectfully disagree! The line that is being drawn here
is the line that is perceived and felt, and the line that is sought here
in the Net, where all is accepted and unquestioned, without the pressure
of the 3D. But what good is it? When you must sign off and wake up in 3D
and deal with folks that weren't here, what difference does this ALL make?
Ben< smurf: I wasn't saying how I think things should be. I was saying
what I think I am seeing in recent New Age spirituality, and providing this
forum for everyone to express their views.
Levita< smurf: I think religion (from my viewpoint anyway) tends to look
out one window with one view. Spirituality is looking out many windows,
opening many doors, and going on many journeys to glimpse many viewpoints.
order< Levita: I think maybe spirituality is more of who you are, what
you do, rather than how many viewpoints you can glimpse? *VBS*
Levita< order: *S* (shrugs) I just like to leave no stone unturned and
look upon as many vistas as possible. That allows a lot of connections to
occur. Yes, I am a spiritual being, very much so; it is the essence of who
I am.
StupidFish< smurf: It makes a difference to the folks who are broadening
their thinking here tonight, and to the people they may speak to. I know
it's small scale to start, but it really does make a difference.
Levita< smurf: All it takes is a small thing to create large ripples
that flow outward from a single event to effect many. For me, religion doesn't
fit very well, *S* but for others it works great and offers them much ...
and I enjoy talking with open-minded priests and rabbis. etc., as I enjoy
talking with open-minded spiritual workers. I just don't want to join anyone's
group.
Tracey< To me, it does not matter what you call it as long as it is based
in love and acceptance. That is why we are here, is it not? *S*
RunningRiver< Yeh!!!! Tracey!!! True!!!!
Yopo< Tracey: There are a great many ideas in the New Age petting zoo.
Many are systems and ideas that were discredited a long time back. What
binds some groups together is the willingness to accept just about ANYTHING.
Where I sense danger is that frequently people don't want to analyze them,
or reality test them, etc. Point out that "The Hundredth Monkey"
story was simply made up, and you get a cross look. Ask what it might mean
that auras cannot be used to determine if there is actually a subject concealed
behind the edge of a screen, and you get another cross look.
greyman< Yopo: "Welcome to the monkey house" --Kurt Vonnegut,
1969.
Yopo< greyman: *S*
order< Yopo: Very nicely said. *VBS*
Tracey< Yopo: Yes, dear heart, it is so ... wherever people come together
in any spiritual learning, there will always be the "cross looks"
as many feel the need to think they are right, which seems to be ever so
important to our way of being. But what if Right is accepting each and every
one of us for the path we are on at this particular point in time? Tough
one, that ... but seems to me, it is the basis of love.
RunningRiver< Religion is like a box ... a tag worn ... not very individual.
I think that is the big thing. You gotta admit that most of us "New
Agers" (for lack of a better word) are "rebels" so to speak.
*S*
greyman< RunningRiver: Definition of God is overload. :o)
Tracey< ((Running River))) Yes, I think we are. *S*
RunningRiver< greyman and Tracey: SO, we are redefining what society
has misconstrued by fear and misunderstanding. *S*
Tracey< Running River: I hope we are, darlin'. I hope we take the fear
out of being ourselves. *S* Take the fear out of accepting what we feel
is true in our own hearts, whatever that may be. Who am I to say anyone
is wrong? It is not my path.
Blinder< Then the solution would seem to be to eschew labels entirely
in favor of personal communion with the Divine. Whenever we accept a label,
we deny anything that falls outside the parameters established by that label.
Last I heard, God knew no boundaries.
bluestar< Blinder: I think this is why Jews made a rule/law/taboo against
putting a name or a face on God. They understand that God has no boundaries.
SoulTraveler< Ethics should be an integral part of both Spirituality
and Religion, IF one is true to his/her faith! imo
LadyV< SoulTraveler: Good statement! I like that.
SoulTraveler< (((LadyV))) *S* Thanks!
Ben< ALL: Okay, if you will bear with me for a minute, I would like to
post three comments.
Ben< COMMENT: spiritual means "not material, not physical, not corporeal"
-- so spirituality includes any belief that there is anything "not
material, not physical, not corporeal" . There are many types of spirituality.
Ben< COMMENT: religion comes from Latin *re* meaning back or again (as
in return), plus *ligare* meaning to tie or bind (as in ligament). Thus,
the implied concept is that a religion ties or binds people back to something
from which they separated, or leads them to connect themselves to something
or someone again.
Ben< COMMENT: The main difference between spirituality and religion is
that religion ties people to something or someone, whereas spirituality
doesn't necessarily tie people to anything or anyone. Some religions and
some types of spirituality are more (or less) binding than others, but this
is the basic distinction.
Ben< ALL: IMHO you did a GOOD job with this series of questions. Namaste.
/|\
Ben< /topic Discussion of spirituality *versus* religion
SoulTraveler< Perhaps Religion is the hardware and Spirituality is the
software?
RunningRiver< I've seen a lot of psychology influencing a lot of spiritual
ideas and beliefs. S*
LadyV< I am still on the word demarcation. That is my contention. It
goes against my grain.
Levita< LadyV: LOL Honestly spoken.
Ben< LadyV: Demarcation basically refers to the establishment of boundaries.
In religion, creeds often serve that purpose.
LadyV< Ben: Thank you.
FRAML< I have found many here who left organized religions because when
they asked questions they were told "If you really believed, you'd
know the answer." Those answers were probably from folks who didn't
know the answer themselves. Also I think that a lot of us hear but don't
believe in our heart and soul of having a personal one-on-one relationship
with God. Thirdly, there are those who are so "me" oriented that
they want to be equal to God and thus fall into the "oneness"
theories.
LarryGC< FRAML: That's me! I asked questions and didn't get answers.
I asked questions; I got back questions. I asked questions; I was told "That's
the way it is" and "That's the way it's always been done".
FRAML< LarryGC: Yes, and that has not been realized by folks trying to
figure out why they lost a generation. I guess I was fortunate because when
I asked questions I was seen as wanting to learn and not "questioning"
God or religion.
LarryGC< I was wanting to learn, too. Nobody had answers.
Blinder< *winks* Too true, my friend. To quote Joseph Campbell, "He
who thinks he knows, doesn't know. He who knows he doesn't know, knows."
LarryGC< Blinder: My granddaddy used to say, "The more you know,
the less you know."
Levita< LarryGC: Well, I can see that sometimes one answer to one question
will in turn cause you to have ten more questions. LOL
order< LarryGC and Blinder: So, why seek? Why pray for wisdom and understanding,
if it only depletes what little wisdom and understanding we already have??
*VBS
Blinder< *s* I think the intent is more along the lines of: "The
more we learn and realize, the less we realize we know".
order< Blinder: Yes, I would agree with you; this approach, or wording,
does not so much leave us proud of our ignorance, but rather teaches us
humility. *VBS
Ben< order: I like this description I once heard: "If we truly expand
the area of our knowledge, we necessarily expand the perimeter of our ignorance,
and so the more we learn, the more we realize how much we do not know."
Levita< Ben: That is a good one indeed; must try to remember that one.
order< Ben: Where does it end? *VBS* When we seek for an answer, and
we receive an answer, by the Grace of God or Spirit or whatever we wish
to call It, we surely should not negate or take away from it. Even as we
learn, even as we grow, even as we see that which we have yet to learn,
we may rest and be thankful for that which has been given to us already?
Ben< order: I think the process I described doesn't end, and I like it
that way. *S* But, yes, of course, I wasn't suggesting that we negate what
we have learned, or grace. What I posted is just a description of what I
call "rational humility".
order< Ben: I see. *VBS* I was just remembering a quote in which a famous
individual said "Seek and you shall find, knock and the door shall
be opened" but the perfection he spoke of (perfection meaning, I assume,
the state of wholeness) was Love. Do we seek wisdom or Love ... or both?
Or are they the same? Surely we may learn to become Love, Loving? *VBS*
sara7< order: I believe that phrase "Seek and you shall find"
means "Seek the face of God and the mystery of God will be revealed
unto you."
order< sara7: I see ... do we seek God's face for the wisdom, or is it
wise to seek God's Face?
sara7< order: I do not seek God's face for the wisdom; I seek his face
that I may recognize him in everything. Knowing God is in itself wisdom.
Remember, even the elect shall be deceived. I only want to know my master's
voice, face, and nature.
order< sara7: So do I! *VERY BIG SMILE*
Ben< order: As I see it, it is better to be loving and seek wisdom than
it is to be wise and seek love. Loving motives set the direction, the purpose,
and then wisdom provides the means.
SoulTraveler< Ben: *S* LOVE that quote! Very true.
order< Ben: Loving motives do set the direction ... to choose Loving
motives is also wise ... seems to be a kinda chicken and the egg thingy
again to me ? *S*
Yopo< Or perhaps Love is a sort of carrier wave. In my occasional lucid
moments *S* I have thought that love might be the one pure thing of God
that we are equipped to carry in our hearts. When we bring it in and carry
it there, we form a connection to the Source. Two-way communication follows.
Wisdom comes over the connection. I think too, perhaps, that it might be
how we are connected to all the other souls that surround us.
Ben< Yopo: Yes, love is the link. Love creates caring-connections. Thus,
those who love each other are spiritually connected, and those who do not
love each other are not spiritually connected.
Yopo< Ben: It can sometimes feel like tuning in and finding the right
frequency to me. A sort of "click" when the link is established.
Have felt this sometimes with people no longer here. A tenuous thing, but
for a moment something passes between. And with other creatures. Suddenly
feeling love for a bird in flight, and feeling an odd sense of connectedness.
Boundaries momentarily disappearing. There's more to love, I think, than
the emotion we usually take it for.
Ben< Yopo: Yes, indeed, there is more to love than emotional reaction.
Years ago, I realized that, for me, love is an action, not a reaction. It
is something I can do. Doing it is what establishes my connection, and then,
as you said, something goes *click* and things start to happen.
Levita< Yopo: re your last post to Ben, I totally agree. It is an overwhelming
awe and admiration and embracement of all of creation, a pure love that
excludes nothing from its embrace.
order< In the bible it says 'Fear is the beginning of wisdom' but the
word 'fear' in that verse is simply AWE ... AWE I believe really is the
beginning of wisdom.
Yopo< Levita: I wish only that I could keep that love at my center at
all times. Not being able to seems the cause of all perception of imperfection.
It is like trying to stay awake. I am forever falling back into a sleep
of habitual behaviors, habitual thoughts. Then momentarily waking up.
Bink< Yopo: That isn't you; it's the "ego" -- the 'carnal mind'
as the Bible has it. As we begin to realize this, we can refuse to give
power to this false sense of us, no? *smile*
Yopo< Bink: I need maybe to get out of my own way. *S*
Levita< Yopo: Yes, I hear you. *S* For me, I find I connect there more
often, the more spiritual work I do, and the more I focus on nature and
creative work, as these are the things that help me keep that center. Do
you have things that you find help you stay in that center?
Yopo< Levita: Yes. For me, also, nature is a path. When I get momentarily
away from the chaos of Man's world, and out into a natural setting, often
my heart seems to open up. I feel something holy there. *S*
order< Levita and Yopo: Agreeing completely with you both.
bluestar< FRAML: [re your post about questions] I agree. I did not verbalize
many questions to my church (too shy to do that). I just disagreed because
my personal experience with God wasn't jiving with a lot of what I learned.
Some did, but there were some major disagreements. Being somewhat of a skeptic,
though, I have been more or less dragged kicking and screaming to many of
the conclusions I now have regarding God and spirituality, by my life experiences
(which tend to be kind of heavily on the spiritual side).
FRAML< bluestar: I understand. Read Ben's "Dialogue with Trudy"
for a story of a similar person. Also there are a couple of people whom
I've gotten to know here, who were raised and stayed in mainline Christianity,
but were relieved when they found out that they weren't so unusual after
all, having psychic experiences or abilities.
bluestar< Yes, it is wonderful we have this forum to share our spirituality
with each other. Thank you all. :-)
Blinder< There is little doubt that every religion has had its share
of those who transcended the rules and strictures to realize what lay beyond
them. The question is, will we ?
Levita< Blinder: A good question, indeed. *S*
Tracey< Blinder: I certainly hope we do, darlin', as the other way is
not working. Do you see "new age spirituality wars"? I hope not,
I think not ... and if you will, I pray not.
LadyV< Blinder: Excuse me, but "we" would not be here on this
site if we were not doing just that. (smiling) Of course I have only seen
us agree totally on one thing in here, and that is when one is hurt, the
others forget all conflicts and aid the best we can. After that, it's ...
well ... hummm ... a little bit of debate. (laughing)
order< Blinder: There surely is little doubt that many spiritual individuals
opt to stay with the guidelines of an organization, not to get, but to give,
to share. I think E. Cayce was one of these enlightened souls, but think
there are lots more. *s*
Blinder< Ah, but order, surely the decision to live one's life within
an order is not a decision to stop looking within? Indeed, the decision
to STAY in an order once one has realized one's true nature must be commended,
for it is a decision to try to aid one's fellow man in his search for his
own truth.
order< Blinder: Perhaps. I am not so sure. I think it is a decision simply
to stay and give and love and share and work with others. Seems a bit pious
to assume we have what another is lacking in spirit? Is it not best to just
love, and let Spirit do the rest ? ... maybe ?
RunningRiver< I like spirituality because of its acceptance, love and
tolerance. I think a lot of those who have turned from religion do so because
of the lack of those things ... and self-righteousness too in the churches,
and dictation, and the black and white world that they try to make you live
in ... that is found in the religion.
LarryGC< Religion: exclusionary. Spirituality: inclusionary. Three things
clog your soul: negativity, judgment, and imbalance.
Tracey< **Running River** Seems we have the same heart, darlin'. *S*
Levita< Running River: I have unfortunately witnessed a lot of intolerance
in spirituality as well. Just throwing this out here, not disagreeing with
your statement.
Tracey< Levita: As have I, darlin', but it is the ideal that is nice
to go to sleep with each night, isn't it? ... that one day we can all ACCEPT
each other as is without judging. *S*
SoulTraveler< I left the Christian Church when I was 17 and never regretted
it, although it took me quite a while to get past 'judging' them being less
'spiritual' because they clung to the old and I embraced the 'New'. It takes
time, experience, wisdom, and love to accept everyone as being where they
'choose to be'.
order< SoulTraveler: Tipping hat to you. Sounds very loving and wise
to me. *VBS*
SoulTraveler< order: *VBS* Thank you.
Tracey< SoulTraveler: Yes ... it takes lots of time. Perhaps our entire
lifetimes.
Levita< Tracey: *S*
StupidFish< SoulTraveler: I don't really dig the church as a whole myself
... but honestly, it's all there, just massively misunderstood, I think.
But if it's doing those folks some good, then so be it. The gap between
religion and spirituality on a whole is huge. But some people only need
a little and desire nothing more. Perhaps their time will come later, but
for now, that's for them.
SoulTraveler< StupidFish: *S* Yes, I agree.
Wonder< StupidFish: And it is a great learning for each of us to allow
them that choice. *S*
SoulTraveler< Wonder: *VBS* This is like the 'Spiritual Town Hall Meeting'
where ideas and beliefs and insights are floored and re-floored. Yet hopefully
ALL will gain something.
Wonder< SoulTraveler: I am sure we all gain something, whether we realize
it in the moment or not. *VBS*
Blinder< StupidFish: I think the point is that people can seek their
enlightenment within whatever context feels right to them. If the sincere
wish and devotion is there, the Divine doesn't care.
SoulTraveler< Blinder: *S* Yes, it's as if SPIRIT is desperately willing
to try ANYTHING that we can come up with in order to relate and communicate
with IT. If we believe in path (A), then Spirit will accommodate. Should
we choose (X), then Spirit responds accordingly, and so on.
Blinder< Agreed, my friend.
StupidFish< Blinder: Absolutely. I just believe in a more 'dynamic' approach
to it. Organized religion in most cases really isn't that flexible. But
again, to each his own and God bless 'em! Also, I think that while the Divine
doesn't care about the path, the path is what is important, and it's really
easy to fall under something and let it become an enormous crutch. I just
think that it takes some work ... not just learning scripture and such,
but actually doing some stuff. Making yourself a better person is the first
step, then learning about yourself, then moving to whatever path it may
be. For some folks, they just never release themselves from the boundaries
that may be felt or imposed by an organized religion ... when discovering
true spirit is boundless. Just my thoughts, not practice here ... but belief.
Good happiness stuff to ya!
LarryGC< But StupidFish, has NOTHING worth mentioning happened in the
last 1999 or so years?
StupidFish< LarryGC: Not sure what you're getting at, but I'm not summing
up people as a whole, only my experience and take on it. Could you expand
a bit?
LarryGC< Oh, just a comment that all the world's religions seem to be
based on things that happened long ago, and the people who did those things.
The "Latest" is from 1999 years ago. The others, Buddha, Moses,
Abraham, etc, are all from longer ago than that ... like NOTHING's happened
in the last two thousand years.
Levita< LarryGC: A very valid point. *S*
StupidFish< LarryGC: I'm still not sure what you're view is here, but
yes, plenty has happened in the length of the Gregorian calendar, and lots
more happened before then ... if, of course, you believe the Earth existed
then ... but I'm still missin' it here ... for I am the StupidFish. What
are your beliefs?
LarryGC< My beliefs have nothing to do with my observations. :) I'm still
not really sure of 'beliefs'. I just know I'm Here Now ... the Present ...
my past, my beginning being less than 40 years ago. I always used to think
that if there was ONE truth, then EVERYONE would agree on it just like we
do in Base 10: 2+2=4.
StupidFish< LarryGC: My beliefs at this point are semi-clear but still
unfocused. In equation form, it's something like infinity = 1. Not something
everyone would agree on.
SoulTraveler< LarryGC: To me, spiritual 'beliefs' are similar to physical
laws. I observe a hammer falling; therefore, I conclude the Law of Gravity
to be in effect, therefore I BELIEVE that if I step off a 10-story building
I will fall. Actually you can take it a further step into KNOWING ... unless
the laws of physics change radically.
dancer< I think to me the difference between spirituality and religion
is two-fold: religion is the law of morality; spirituality is the breath
of it. Religion sets boundaries; spirituality supersedes them through the
purity of it's own reflection. In many ways it is through the repetitive
rituals of religion that we come to the place of freeing ourselves to move
within spirit.
Tracey< Ya know, it strikes me as though we are all here because we seek
a better world ... because we care enough to be talking here rather than
sleeping. Perhaps the new beginning is started only in "wanting".
*S* Love and peace to you all.
Levita< Tracey: Good point; it is a start. (hug)
SoulTraveler< Tracey: *VBS* Good to see you. I have friends now in various
paths including Christian, and I am honestly joy-filled for them, and want
nothing but their happiness and further spiritual growth in their chosen
path. At other times I would have tried to enlighten them or convert them
(haven't we been there on the receiving end before?) or in some way imply
that I was on higher, more enlightened spiritual ground!
Tracey< SoulTraveler: Peace and love to you. Glad you are OK. Been on
my mind. *S*
SoulTraveler< ((((Tracey)))) *VBS* Thank you so much.
LadyV< bluestar: I learned in being with the elderly that one does return
to the basic value of the Church of one's youth. As one approaches the last
path or is on that path, assurances are needed more than ever. The structure
of the Church (regardless of which Church) helps at this time. I can understand
a little of your last messages.
LarryGC< LadyV: That's only because they wish the gathering of others.
Perhaps when WE grow old, gathering at SWC will suffice. :)
LadyV< LarryGC: Good point: it is important to have a support system.
Structure provides this in the Church. SWC provides this structure and support
for many ... in a sense ... not entirely. Most of us have support systems
outside of this site.
LarryGC< You do, LadyV? That's great. I don't know too many people in
the flesh, other than those I've met on-line here at gatherings, and most
of them don't live nearby at all.
LadyV< LarryGC: Sorry I was not clearer to you. I am saying a support
group outside and off of the Internet. I have had only one in this group
as a sharer in 3D. She is sadly now dead. I am only in this group on the
Internet by choice.
LarryGC< Yes, LadyV, that's what I was referring to. The ONLY people
I know on any form of spiritual path, in the flesh, are those I met on-line
here via SWC. I don't know anyone outside and off the Internet who shares
my Dyeristic views.
LadyV< LarryGC: That's a little difficult for you. Have you been to a
Library and just talked to a pretty girl about your views? Or maybe had
lunch at a diner near a college? I am sorry to hear that people are that
isolated in sharing, especially in regards to a book.
LarryGC< A library? You mean the New Age section? Interesting idea. Well,
no, but I've been to Walden's and BDalton's before and never really met
anyone in those sections, now that you mention it.
LadyV< LarryGC: You've got to speak up and say Hello ... start the chat
with someone ... let others know your interest. You might be surprised.
LarryGC< Great idea, LadyV ... easier typed than done. This is NY. It's
amazing that I go to Dyer seminars and meet a few hundred Dyer type people,
but they're all strangers before and after, for the most part.
StupidFish< LadyV: I agree that a support system is very important, but
at what point does it become a crutch? Not an argument here, just a question.
I feel that many people become content in their support systems, whatever
they may be, and tend to see it as the end result ... but that's just me.
LadyV< StupidFish: Not so sure about crutches ... a little lost here
about that. We are social animals. The elderly require this because they
are weaker and are approaching death. The young require this because they
are not mature enough to handle life. It makes life a little easier when
you have a neighbor ... or I feel so.
StupidFish< LadyV: Yes, absolutely ... but I do think that some things,
support groups for example, or any number of ceremonies or rituals or just
personal routines, can become a 'crutch' when dealing with spirituality
or perhaps just day-to-day life. These things may inhibit a person from
moving forward because it's just so comfy at that place and moment, or perhaps
they don't want to break the 'social' thing and leave the group. In my terms,
I see something like that as having huge value for a person when they're
getting started or in a time of crisis, but at a point it's not needed anymore
except when dealing with others that may value it's presence. Things are
always easier when they're within a set of boundaries ... kinda takes the
guesswork out of it ... and eventually all the work. Then it becomes a 'crutch'.
Just one man's opinion here.
LadyV< StupidFish: I can appreciate your views. I suppose, because I
work with men and women and see how lonely they are and what happens to
them when they are isolated socially and otherwise, that I am more supportive
of sharing with others. A man generally stands alone between 2 years and
about 50 years, then he reaches for a hand ... believe me he does ... and
it is the shock of his life (or her life). It's OK to be independent. Our
social order in the US promotes this in males. Not so in other societies.
However, I do see and will reflect on the points you made.
LarryGC< "We are our form and our formlessness. We are both visible
and invisible, and we need to honor our totality, not just what we can see
and touch."
Levita< LarryGC: Well, I have been judged by those who are religious
and by those who are spiritual. *shrugs* *S* I have yet to find a niche
in 3D with others. One day, maybe, but if not *shrugs* that is OK, too.
*S*
LarryGC< The spiritual path, or at least the path Dyer helped me get
on, requires no niche. Be with me, or get out of my Light.
sara7< If you seek God's face, nobody or nothing can be in your light
-- you are in the front of the line.
~*sheba< I am not sure if I even think of God as having a face. Or is
that more of a rhetorical question about seeing God's Face?
LarryGC< Until someone can be LarryGC better than me, I'm stuck with
the job.
Levita< LarryGC: Well, I think you are doing a wonderful job of being
you. *S*
LarryGC< Not always easy, Levita. If it were EASY, everyone could do
it! :)
order< LarryGC: Why is it NOT easy? *S*
Levita< LarryGC: Well, just remember, even Kermit the frog sings about
how it isn't easy being green. lol ;-)
sara7< Green is my favorite color.
---------- [parallel conversation] ----------
Levita< FRAML: I personally subscribe to the "oneness" theory,
but more like everything is interconnected and part of one big creation;
thus we are one but also part of the one. I am not the creator or equal
to the creator, but a part of the creator.
FRAML< Levita: I used 'oneness' as a catch-all phrase, but was thinking
more of those who say that they will become equal to God, etc. I guess I
have no desire to be an 'as-god', I'm content to be an as-angel, doing his
bidding. For me having the divine spark of life makes me a part of God's
realm, but not an actual part of God. (If that makes sense, seeing that
God is spiritual and not physical.)
Levita< FRAML: Yes, I understand what you are saying, and by what you
say know that in some ways we have similar but also differing viewpoints.
*S* But the positive is that we can communicate these ideas in a good and
non-judgmental way.
FRAML< Levita: I won't argue to convert a person to my position. However,
I retain my ability to decide if they are on the "best" road to
get to their destination. (I just don't have to be so discourteous as to
throw that decision in their face.)
SoulTraveler< FRAML: But HOW can you determine from your point of view
what is right for them? I know you mean well, but I don't see how you could
call that shot. Especially with all the ramifications and influences to
consider in changing another's life course. *S*
FRAML< SoulTraveler: I compare what they say they believe to how they
act in the room. Also by examining the path they explain they are taking
to get to the goal. I make a decision about their path relative to the intended
goal and my own journey. I do not condemn them for taking their path. Also
I do not attack them, though I've been accused of attacking when I've asked
a person to explain "why" they believe, just as I expect I must
be ready to do if they ask me "why" I believe in my path.
SoulTraveler< FRAML: *S* I see, now that you've clarified. I agree.
StupidFish< I clarified some butter tonight at work. Much easier than
speaking clearly on the 'net. Man, I really miss sittin' around and talkin'
about stuff with a good friend. Always an adventure!
LarryGC< PATH? what path? I don't want to generalize, but most people
I know who say they are spiritual seek spirituality. Most people who say
they are religious think that means going to Church or synagogue once a
year or maybe a bit more. Some even go every Sunday. But once they walk
out those doors, there's no religion in their actions of the week.
FRAML< LarryGC: Yep, being "religious" has all sorts of shadings
& attendance.
sara7< FRAML: Hence came the verse "Many are called but few are
chosen".
FRAML< sara7: Oh, I though it was "few choose to follow." I'll
check it out later.
LarryGC< My path is what I've paved through Wayne Dyer, however. He's
helped me see my way clear.
SoulTraveler< I met Wayne Dyer in Atlanta about 3 years ago. Whole Life
Expo.
LarryGC< Yes, I've spent time with Wayne as well, in 1996 and 1997. He
played the best rendition of Amazing Grace I've ever heard, singing with
the whales just before intermission. Great seminar it was in 96 & 97.
I was to see him this year, but [hurricane] FLOYD canceled it.
---------- [parallel conversation] ----------
Levita< FRAML: Yes, I agree. I don't think it is anyone's job to convert
anybody to anything. *S* Sharing and discussing why someone feels or understands
their world the way they do is very broadening; it enables us greater understanding.
Everyone is on a very individual path that is their journey alone and I
would never want to take on mapping out someone's journey or telling them
what to do while on that journey. To me, it would not be appropriate, for
I know some of the roads I have journeyed on would not be for everyone.
Wonder< Levita: I agree with you. When we are able to see another's perspective,
it DOES broaden ours.
SoulTraveler< Levita: *S* I agree. I wouldn't know where to begin trying
to determine whether someone was on the 'most efficient' or 'right' spiritual
path to their destination. And how would you know what that 'destination'
is anyway? They may not even know.
order< Levita: Many Christians take the New Testament words of Jesus
seriously, when he talks about going out into the highways and byways to
compel them to come in, also when he talks about the fields being ripe with
so few reapers. So, many Christians do feel it is their job to 'convert'
others, so to speak. I understand this dedication in them. *S*
Levita< order: Sorry, I would have to get the bible out to see the context
of the particular passage you quoted to me, *S* so I really can't intelligently
respond to that last post.
SoulTraveler< order: I understand that as well, and I accept Christians
having the 'need' to try and convert, for that very act implies a great
LOVE and dedication or else they wouldn't undertake such a task. I've had
many conversion attempts, and used to react with anger, resentment, indignation,
and such ... but now it really doesn't bother me, partly from knowing they
have nothing else to fall back on. So WHY knock their props out from under
them? especially if we have nothing to replace them with. Would any here
knock the crutches out from under someone? So why do it spiritually then?
[The following seems to have been in reply to a private message from LadyV]
SoulTraveler< LadyV: Just meant that 'neither side' should attempt to
knock the crutches or props or belief systems out from under another, regardless
of how 'crippling' and 'limiting' they may seem to us (being the more enlightened!)
*LOL*
order< SoulTraveler: I admire your tolerance, however I don't think I
would call their dedication a crutch. To them it is simply the Way ... like
your chosen belief is your way ... maybe. *S
SoulTraveler< order: Didn't mean to imply that Christians or what-have-you
are hobbling on spiritual crutches and that I am not. *G* What I was getting
at was that beliefs *can* be crutches, and if I recognize them as crutches
I still shouldn't attempt to knock them out from under someone. Even our
most 'lofty' beliefs could be viewed as crutches by someone else. imo
order< SoulTraveler: I am so glad you clarified this. Your answer is
full of love and understanding, and I am happy to read it. *Hugs*
SoulTraveler< (((order)))) *LOL* I knew you understood.
order< SoulTraveler: I did understand, but thought to provoke you to
expound ... enjoyed your response. *S
SoulTraveler< order: I am laughing over this 'image' in my mind of everyone
hobbling around on spiritual crutches and at the same time saying "HEY
YOU! Do you realize you're hobbling on crutches?" and at the same time
not realizing that they themselves are on crutches! *LOL*
Levita< SoulTraveler: lol Oh, I can see it now: used crutches for sale
... various sizes available and some barely used at all.
order< SoulTraveler: ahaha ... do you suppose we really look like this?
Perhaps we do! *LOL* Now you've got me laughing too.
SoulTraveler< order: ROTFLMAO over this!
order< SoulTraveler: ahahahaha! ... you're a Stitch tonight. lol
sara7< SoulTraveler: Remember when I kept falling out of the room? That
was 'cause somebody took the rubber thingy off the bottom of my crutch.
LOL!!
SoulTraveler< ((((sara7)))) *VBS* It's those 'teachers' and 'Masters'
and such that are removing those rubber booty things. Causing us to pitch
and roll and fall and stumble! *LOL*
sara7< Praise the Lord! Laughter is medicine ... I am healed!
SoulTraveler< sara7: Yes, laughter from the heart and soul is healing.
I am so SORE from laughing I NEED a healing! *LOL* ~WHEW~ !!!
sara7< lol, lol, lol, lol, lol!!! ha ha he he he ha he, it hurts!
---------- [parallel conversation] ----------
~*sheba< SoulTraveler: I have not thought of it that way, but I think
that is true, in a way. We are all searching, and when we find what we see
as truth, we tend to look at others as not finding the truth ... when it
feels sometimes like it takes a million eyes to see God, and those eyes
being human trying to see what may be unseeable with human eyes.
SoulTraveler< ~*sheba *VBS* It will be wondrous to finally, truly SEE
with the Spiritual Eyes and lay down the Crutches on our own ... knowingly
so!
~*sheba< SoulTraveler: *S* Yes, that would be a wonderful thing. It seems
I have spent my whole life searching for all the pieces of the puzzle, but
the picture won't stay still long enough. And then there is always that
one piece that you just can't find, and if you try and cram another in its
spot, it ruins what you would see. *G*
20. Spirituality and/or religion
Session 3 -- Spirituality *and* religion
Sat 16 Oct 1999
Ben< This seminar is exploring two subjects -- spirituality and religion
-- to see where they overlap and where they don't. Tonight we will look
at one of the ways in which spirituality and religion are interrelated.
Ready? Here we go.
Ben< QUESTION 1: If people believe that spirituality means personal experience,
what can be expected to happen in each generation of the human race? YOUR
TURN
FRAML< They will be constantly re-inventing the wheel. There will be
no progress because they are not going to use any history of experiences
of others. They will not have the tools to figure out what has and hasn't
worked in the past.
Yopo< Not sure. Might be that a freshness would remain in our belief
systems. If direct personal spiritual experiences have some degree of commonalty,
wouldn't necessary upset the apple-cart of our cherished traditional beliefs.
There might be some sort of evolution that would be an ongoing part of them.
Ben< FRAML, Yopo: Thank you. Others?
Lor< FRAML: Surely not. Why shouldn't they generate a history? If the
experiences were sufficiently significant, I should think their witness
to others, at least with their close friends and family should tend to build
a cherished spiritual culture.
bluestar< I don't really understand the question, Ben; but re: FRAML's
response, which is a probable outcome, it's also possible some people will
share their spiritual experiences as they do now and have done in the past
(John, Ezekiel, Daniel), and that others will find confirmation (as I do)
in the experiences of others (though the details may differ).
Lor< If each generation observes a personal spiritual experience, then
each generation can bear witness to it. Is that what you are driving at,
Ben?
Ben< Lor: Good point. Spiritual truths are rediscovered, so testimony
does tend to converge, if and when semantic differences are straightened
out so people are not talking past each other.
bluestar< Yopo: I agree with your comment about freshness. Spirituality,
though on many levels may be constant, needs a newness of experience (IMHO)
to remain relevant to each generation.
Ben< I think there are two answers to this question: the good news is,
each generation will re-discover many aspects of spirituality; the bad news
is, each generation will re-learn many lessons the hard way.
RunningRiver< Spirituality depends on what angle or perspective you look
at it. It's not so much generations as it is the individual progression
towards their ultimate outcome. But I do think awareness as a whole is progressing
from generation to generation. It seems that we reached a low which we are
now ascending from in a new way with new energy combined with the old ways
and knowledge. S*
Basil< Running River: I agree. Perspective creates the reality. But it
is up to the individual. Perseverance, dedication, love, and compassion
are key elements.
RunningRiver< Basil: Definitely! S* Knowledge of Good and Bad are always
very important and helpful. It is what is done in the hands, mind, and spirit
of a person that is either good or bad. There is always misuse and abuse
of energy and power, and also misunderstandings of their purpose, but of
course all of this is used to learn lessons (or not, if one chooses not
to learn).
tracey< I think sometimes that the spirituality we learn from others
can actually take us off our path. Perhaps our interpretation is different
than the accepted "norm" and people, being people, are many times
afraid to speak out if they have a different point of view. Sometimes it
takes years of wondering why you don't "fit". Past experience
of others is a wonderful tool when it is used as: "Does this fit in
your soul?" If it is presented as though: "This better fit in
your soul" then it seems to cause self-doubt in many people. IMHO.
Lor< I should think that if people shared their spiritual experiences
more openly, we all would be much more knowledgeable regarding the truths
that such experiences evoke and be much better off.
RunningRiver< Lor: That is so true. Being able to look at another's path
in an unbiased way would be ideal, and I believe would aid in everyone's
growth. S*
Lor< RunningRiver: Granted we tend to be a bit reticent about being too
open again, once we've experienced some unkind/un-understanding or unsympathetic
response to a shared spiritual experience.
RunningRiver< Lor: True, I definitely don't advertise my gifts or beliefs
too much in public unless I am called to do so, and/or feeling brave that
day. Most are not receptive and very negative. But I have been pleasantly
surprised. I decided to used my religious freedom more lately as expression
of love. Good point. S*
Ben< QUESTION 2: This generation is rediscovering aspects of spirituality
such as the existence of discarnate entities (angels, ghosts, demons, etc),
channeling, OBE, NDE, etc. Which of these rediscoveries do you think are
good news? Or bad news? Why? YOUR TURN
FRAML< Ben: Rediscovery of discarnates is good, however the concept that
"all discarnate's are good" is bad and dangerous. Channeling without
examining the content and the purpose for it can be bad, for folks can be
misled by a discarnate seeking to control them.
Lor< Ben: It seems that each generation still has to relearn many lessons
the hard way.
Basil< Ben: I don't believe in any of the things you listed. But I do
think each is an expression of consciousness. The viewer creates his reality
by his beliefs. I hope this makes some sense.
RunningRiver< Basil: That is an interesting view... makes sense. S*
Basil< Hmmm. I wonder what the world would be like if humans had compound
eyes like an insect. Would the world BE different? Or would our perception
be different? And which is the more "real"?
RunningRiver< Basil: That is a really neat way of looking at it. One
Universe, different perspectives of reality. Whatever fits a person's path
and willingness to expand that path to encompass others beliefs or at least
the tolerance of those beliefs. *S*
Basil< Running River: It is more than that. What my hypothesis suggests
is that we are CREATORS. This is not a passive thing. We actively create
the reality we express in our words, aspirations, thoughts, and visions.
RunningRiver< Basil: Yes, true... I believe we are able to create and
attract things into our lives once we take control and realize that we are
able to do this. Very enlightened perspective. S* As are all of the thoughts
expressed here. S*
[Ben< Basil: We create many things, but unless we are blinded by our
beliefs, we discover that realities exist whether or not we believe they
exist.]
Yopo< From my own perspective, I think ALL these rediscoveries are good
news. I believe the single most dangerous 20th Century trend was that of
accepting materialism as a self-evident truth. Think we were in danger of
losing belief in any sort of spiritual dimension to the universe. ALL those
things force a reexamination of a dangerous premise.
Lor< I suspect that God has arranged for many of us to experience all
these, so that we can better assess his nature, or at least to better assimilate
truths about what life is and can be like. I agree with Yopo that this is
surely good.
Ben< Yopo: Yes, I agree that the rediscovery of spiritual realities is
an absolutely essential antidote for materialism (and humanism). In my opinion,
that is the very good